Your Attitude Reveals Your Estimate of Yourself and God

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CourseProverbs: The Fear of the Lord and Wisdom: Can We All Just Get Along?
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BookBook 082: Proverbs: The Fear of the Lord and Wisdom - Volume 2 — Chapter 46
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Synopsis: John Weaver expounds Genesis 32:10 to show that a person's attitude reveals their estimate of both themselves and God. True biblical humility recognizes our complete unworthiness before a holy God, while pride is an abomination. Jacob's prayer exemplifies pleading God's covenant and promises from a posture of utter unworthiness. The sermon contrasts this with the self-righteousness of the Pharisees and the world's emphasis on self-esteem. Believers must see that everything they have is by grace alone, and that a proper view of self leads to gratitude, obedience, and reliance on Christ's worthiness.


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Opening

All right, if you will open your Bibles to Genesis chapter 32 and verse 10. Genesis 32 and verse 10. The title of the message is "Your Attitude Reveals Your Estimate of Yourself and God." Think about that title. Your attitude reveals your estimate of yourself and God. So if you look in Genesis 32 and verse 10, Jacob is praying and he says,

Scripture Reading — Genesis 32:10
"I am not worthy of the least of all thy mercies and of all the truth which thou hast showed unto thy servant."

Introduction: The World's Self-Esteem vs. Biblical Humility

Weaver contrasts modern self-worth programs with the biblical truth that our worth comes from God, not ourselves, and pride is an abomination.

"For with my staff I passed over this Jordan, and now I am become two bands." There are all kinds of programs on the market today that teach what is known as self-worth, self-esteem, self-improvement, and a good self-image. The trend is to magnify and enlarge our self-consciousness to the fact that we are indeed what we would call worthy individuals and that we should be extremely proud of ourselves. In fact, if you follow most of those trends, you would become not only extremely proud, but also to the point of defiance. So if anyone then spoke ill of your self-improvement, your self-image, your self-worth, you're almost ready to fight instantly.

Now, I do understand and know that we are creatures of God and we are made in His image. Humanly speaking, our worth is from the hands of our Maker. We have no worth in and of ourselves. Thus, to think anything else is nothing more than pride. The Bible says in Psalm 100 and verse 3, "Know ye that the Lord, He is God. It is He that hath made us and not we ourselves." "We are His people and the sheep of His pasture." So pride, of course, is an abomination to God. And it also destroys our character and produces strife and wrath. So let me just give you a few verses to begin with. Everyone can quote Proverbs 16 and verse 18 where the Bible said,

Scripture Reading — Proverbs 16:18
"Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall."

But there are other verses. For instance, Proverbs 16 and verse 5, "Everyone that is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord."

The Inseparability of Our View of God and Self

A biblical view of God inevitably produces a biblical view of self, as illustrated by Isaiah's vision in Isaiah 6.

I suppose you understand that it's impossible to be humble and proud at the same time. Likewise, it is also impossible to see yourself as you should. Let me go back and rephrase this. It's impossible to see yourself as you should in a biblical manner without seeing God as who He is. And you can reverse that. It's impossible to have a biblical view of God and see God as to who He is without also having a biblical view of yourself. You remember that passage in Isaiah chapter 6, where Isaiah said, "In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord high and lifted up and His train filled the temple." It was in that passage. He also saw the seraphim. They had six wings. With twain they covered their eyes, with twain they covered their feet, with twain they did fly, and they ceased not saying, "Holy, holy, holy, Lord of hosts." And what did Isaiah say? Isaiah said, "Woe is me, for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips, for mine eyes have seen the Lord of hosts."

So when you have a biblical view of God, you're inevitably going to have a biblical view of yourself. If you have a biblical view of yourself, you're inevitably going to have a biblical view of God. So a true theological and biblical view of God will inevitably give you a true theological and biblical view of yourself. This is why I said that it is your attitude that is going to demonstrate and manifest your estimate of yourself and your estimate of God as well.

Jacob's Distress and Prayer in Genesis 32

Facing Esau with 400 men, Jacob is greatly afraid and distressed, leading him to pray and plead God's covenant and promises.

knows that he's going to face Esau and he hears that Esau is coming with four hundred men. In fact, we see his normal reaction. If you look in verse 7 of Genesis 32,

Scripture Reading — Genesis 32:7-9
"Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed. And he divided the people that was with him and the flocks into two herds, and the camels into two bands, and said, If Esau come to the one company and smite it, then the other company which is left shall escape."

So notice the Bible says he was greatly afraid and distressed. We certainly understand fear. But I want you to note the word distressed. The Hebrew word happens to be the word yatsar, and it literally means not only to be distressed, but it also means to be in straits. If you and I were to use the language that Jacob was using then, today, we would say, he's in a tight spot. We would say he's in a dangerous spot. We would say he's between a rock and a hard place. In other words, it's going to be difficult for Jacob to get out of the position that he's in.

So Jacob then goes to prayer over this situation. So if you look in verse 9, "Jacob said, O God of my father Abraham, and God of my father Isaac, the Lord which saidst unto me, Return unto thy country and to thy kindred, and I will deal well with thee." Now it's in this verse that we begin to see Jacob's estimate of God and his estimate of himself. I want you to pay close attention to verse 9 because Jacob says, "O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac." Hmm, he's addressing God as the God of his ancestors. Jacob discerns himself as so completely unworthy in this passage, he does not even say that God is his God, although all the covenantal blessings were descended upon Jacob through Abraham and Isaac. So I want you to note what he is doing. So in verse 9, he is pleading the covenantal relationship that he is in, that God initiated between Abraham, and then it went to Isaac, and now to him.

Jacob's Confession of Unworthiness

Jacob declares he is not worthy of the least of God's mercies, using a Hebrew word meaning small and insignificant.

"I'm not worthy of the least of all the mercies and of all the truth which thou hast showed unto thy servant." So Jacob now has pleaded the covenant that God had made with Abraham and Isaac and which had descended upon him. And I want you to note what he said in verse 10, "I am not worthy." Now the Hebrew word for worthy is the word katon, and it literally means to be small and insignificant. Now, I hope you know that the Septuagint is the Greek translation of the Hebrew Old Testament. Anytime you see the Roman numerals LXX, which stands for 70, it's because the word Septuagint means 70, because it was translated by 70 scholars in Alexandria. Even our Lord and the disciples quoted from the Septuagint. When you look at the word worthy in the Septuagint, it happens to be the Greek word hikanos. And that word means one that is not sufficient, one that is not fit, one that is not meet, one that is not suitable. So literally what Jacob is saying, "I'm not suitable. I'm not meet. I'm not fit for the least of thy mercies." Not the least one.

Biblical Examples of Humble Self-Estimation

Abraham, David, Agur, and Peter all expressed deep unworthiness before God, contrasting with the Pharisee's pride.

Why are you chasing a partridge? I'm not worth anything." Goodness, how about Agur in Proverbs 30 verse 2? He said, "Surely I am more brutish than any man and have not the understanding of a man." He said, "I'm like a dumb animal. I don't have any understanding." Wow! And when you get to Luke 5 in verse 8, when Peter saw the Lord, he fell down at Jesus' feet, the Bible says, saying, "Depart from me, Lord, for I am a sinful man."

Now the word sinful there is from the Greek word hamartolos, which literally means a sinner, a wicked man, a sinful man, one which is preeminently sinful. So he said, "Lord, depart from me. I am so wicked. I don't even deserve your presence."

Now, when you think about Abraham, "dust and ashes," David, "I'm a worm," Agur, "I'm more brutish than any man," Peter, "I'm a sinful man," when you think about men with attitudes like this and you compare that with the attitude of the Pharisees—you remember that passage in Luke chapter 18. In fact, if you want to turn there very quickly in Luke chapter 18, look at verses 10 through 14. Luke 18, beginning there in verse 10. Look at what our Lord says. Luke 18 verse 10. Our Lord says,

Scripture Reading — Luke 18:10-14
"Two men went up into the temple to pray, the one a Pharisee and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week.

I give tithes of all that I possess. And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God, be merciful to me, a sinner. And our Lord says, I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other. For everyone that exalteth himself shall be abased, and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted."

So notice, if you would, here's the Pharisee. What is he saying? "I thank thee, Lord. I'm not as other men." In other words, "I am worthy of anything and everything because I'm not an extortioner. I'm not unjust. I'm not an adulterer. I'm not like this publican. Why, Lord, I fast twice in the week. I give tithes of all that I possess." Now when you stop and think about Jacob, when you stop and think about David and Abraham and Peter, these men were not just debasing themselves. They were not just simply belittling themselves. They were not pretending. No, no. They recognized their insignificance. They recognized their low estate. They recognized their position before a holy, majestic, and sovereign God. And so Jacob and David and Agur and Peter and the publican simply recognize this one simple truth: God doesn't owe us anything. And I do not deserve anything.

Grace vs. Works: God Owes Us Nothing

Paul's argument in Romans 11 shows that if salvation is by grace, it cannot be by works; God is not obligated to us.

Know ye not what the scripture saith of Elijah, how he maketh intercession to God against Israel, saying, Lord, they have killed thy prophets and digged down thine altars, and I am left alone and they seek my life. But what saith the answer of God unto him? I have reserved to myself seven thousand men who have not bowed the knee to the image of Baal. Even so then at this present time also there is a remnant according to the election of grace. Now watch carefully. And if by grace, then it is no more of works. Otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then it is no more grace. Otherwise work is no more work." That's what he's saying. You cannot combine works and grace. If you believe that God owes you something, it means then that you have performed some type of work for God and He therefore is obligated to pay you, which is impossible. So the Apostle Paul said you are what you are and you have what you have only

by the grace of God. It is that simple. So if God owes you, it has to be based upon works and merit. He does not owe you anything. And yet what God does is He sustains us. He nourishes us. He takes care of us. He protects us all through His grace and mercy and compassion. And none of us deserve the least of this. Do you realize that the best and the greatest, and I will even say the godliest of men, do not deserve one thing from God?

The Centurion's Faith and Unworthiness

The centurion in Luke 7 declared himself unworthy, using the same Greek word as Jacob, and Jesus marveled at his faith.

And a certain centurion's servant who was dear unto him was sick and ready to die. Look at this now. And when he heard of Jesus, he sent unto Him the elders of the Jews, beseeching Him that He would come and heal his servant. And when they came to Jesus, they besought Him instantly, saying that he, that is the centurion, was worthy for whom He should do this. For he loveth our nation and has built us a synagogue. Then Jesus went with them, and when He was now not far from the house, the centurion sent friends to Him, saying unto Him, Lord, trouble not Thyself, for I am not worthy that Thou shouldest enter under my roof. Wherefore neither thought I myself worthy to come unto Thee, but say the word, and my servant shall be healed.

For I also am a man set under authority, having under me soldiers. And I say unto one, Go, and he goeth, and to another, Come, and he cometh. And to my servant, Do this, and he doeth it. When Jesus heard these things, He marveled at him, and turned Him about, and said unto the people that followed Him, I say unto you, I have not found so great faith, no, not in Israel. And they that were sent returning to the house found the servant whole that had been sick. I want you to notice something in verse 4. When those Jews came to Jesus, they besought Him instantly, saying that he, the centurion, was worthy for whom this miracle should be accomplished. Okay, what did they base their worthiness upon, or the worthiness of the centurion? What did they base their attitude and estimate of the centurion upon? Verse 5: "For he loveth our nation, and he built us a synagogue."

Now, the interesting thing is this. In verse 4, when they said he is worthy, it is the Greek word axios, which means worthy, befitting, congruous, corresponding unto, or something that is merited. So, here's what they're saying. He loves our nation. He's built a synagogue, and therefore that merits this miracle that should be done for him on his servant. That's what they were saying, that he deserves it. However, when you skip down to verse 6, "Then Jesus went with them, and when He was now not far from the house, the centurion sent friends to Him, saying unto Him, Lord, trouble not Thyself, for I am not worthy that Thou shouldest enter under my roof. Wherefore neither thought I myself worthy to come unto Thee, but say the word, and my servant shall be healed." Now, the word worthy in verse 6 and verse 7 is a totally, completely different word than that which is used in verse 4.

Now, I'm sure you don't remember this, but I'm going to tell you. When Jacob said in Genesis 32 in verse 10, "I'm not worthy of the least of thy mercies," I gave you the Hebrew word. Then I gave you the Greek word from the Septuagint. "I'm not meet. I'm not fit. I don't deserve this." That is exactly the same word that is used in verse 6 and verse 7. So on the one hand, the Jews said he's worthy because he loves our nation. He's built us a synagogue.

In other words, he merits this. He said, "Lord, I'm not worthy. I'm not even worthy for You to enter under the roof of my house, much less do this for me. No. I am not worthy." In other words, here is the attitude that he had when he came to our Lord. The centurion said, "I'm not meet. I'm not fit. I'm not sufficient. Lord, I don't even deserve You to come under my roof, much less do this miracle that I'm asking You to do." So here's the truth.

Applications: Prayer, Fear, and Facing Problems

Jacob's short, earnest prayer models pleading God's covenant; we should confess our fears to God and not run from problems.

For with my staff I passed over this Jordan, and now I am become two bands. Deliver me, I pray Thee, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, lest he will come and smite me and the mother with the children." I want you to notice how short Jacob's prayer was. He was not praying all over the world. He was not praying for everybody in the world. His prayer was very short and very pointed. Moreover, he was very, extremely earnest. I would say in this his appeal was made to God on the basis of a standing covenantal relation that he had through Abraham and Isaac. So in other words, it's just like when you and I come to God the Father, we plead that eternal covenant of grace which we have in Jesus Christ. Wow. He also pleads a special promise that God gave him on a safe return. And so when you look at this, it's a most humble and affecting confession of unworthiness. It breathes an earnest desire for deliverance from impending danger. It was a prayer of a loving husband, of a loving father, of someone who wanted to see the glory of God and the will of God accomplished in his life.

And he was confessing, "I don't deserve the least of these Thy mercies." Wow. Here's the second one. If you would notice that Jacob freely confessed his fear of Esau and asked God for his protection. He said, "Lord, deliver me from Esau, for I fear him." We should not be shy in telling God our fears. Number one, He already knows them. And number two, He's really the only one who can correct them in our lives. He's told us so many times in the Bible, "Fear not." And the Bible says that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind, 2 Timothy 1:7. But yet by nature, we fear certain things. And we just have to say, "Lord, I'm fearful in this area. Please help me. Please deliver me." God already knows our fears. And so we need to confess those fears and seek His aid.

Now, I want you to go back in your Bibles to Genesis chapter 27, because here's the third application. And I want you to pay close attention to this one. And that is this: We must learn that we cannot run from our problems. Problems must be resolved. They do not go away. If you try to run from your problem, you may escape it temporarily, but you will meet it farther down the road with an increased magnitude and increased intensity. Now, the problem was in Genesis 27, verse 41, Esau was planning on murdering Jacob because Jacob stole the blessing. Look at it, verse 41: "And Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing wherewith his father blessed him. And Esau said in his heart, The days of mourning for my brother are at hand. Then will I slay my brother Jacob." Now I know and you know that Jacob deceived Isaac his father and got the blessing. But in reality, the blessing went with the birthright. And Esau despised his birthright and already sold that birthright to Jacob for a mess of pottage.

And Jacob knew that Esau would never, ever give him that blessing willingly. And yes, he did deceive him. Now, I want you to watch this. It could have been probably resolved one-on-one, face-to-face. It probably could have been resolved not just between Jacob and Esau, but with Isaac and Rebekah there too, because both of them were well. But Jacob decided to run. What could have been resolved one-on-one, it's now 400 to 1. Wow. Look what Rebekah said. Look in Genesis 27 verse 42: "And these words of Esau, her elder son, were told to Rebekah. And she sent and called Jacob her younger son, and said unto him, Behold, thy brother Esau, as touching thee, doth comfort himself, proposing to kill thee.

Now therefore, my son, obey my voice, and arise, and flee thou to Laban, my brother in Haran, and tarry with him a few days, until thy brother's fury turn away. Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee and he forget that which thou hast done to him. Then will I send and fetch thee from thence. Why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?" So she says, "You go. You go for a few days." Do you remember how long the few days were? Twenty years. Twenty years. She never saw Jacob again.

The Fruit of Humility: Gratitude and Obedience

A humbled heart acknowledges unworthiness, leading to grateful obedience and a life that honors God's worthiness.

Now, I want to show you one other verse. I want you to look in your Bibles to the book of Jeremiah chapter 44, if you would please. Jeremiah 44. And I want you to look at verse 10. Jeremiah 44 and verse 10. God is speaking against Israel. So the truly humble soul will evidence itself with an attitude of unworthiness, an attitude acknowledging God's graciousness, God's mercy, God's favor. But that's not all. Jeremiah 44, look in verse 10 at what God says. God says, "They are not humbled even unto this day, neither have they feared nor walked in My law nor in My statutes that I set before you and before your fathers." So a truly humbled heart will have an attitude and disposition of unworthiness and will seek to obey simply because such a heart realizes it can never be worthy, but it will seek to obey out of a heart of love and gratitude for the gracious favor and mercies of God. And do you understand?

If we realize how unworthy we are and we do not deserve anything, it will enable us to be grateful and thankful and appreciative for anything and everything. It's just like that Syrophoenician woman. "Lord, I'll take the crumbs. I'll be happy with the crumbs. Because I don't even deserve the crumbs." Your attitude reveals your estimate of yourself and your estimate of God. If you count yourself worthy, then you count God as unworthy. If you count yourself unworthy, then you'll count God as worthy. He will deserve all the honor, all the glory, and all praise. What did Jacob pray? "I am not worthy of the least of Thy mercies and of all Thy truth which Thou hast shown unto Thy servant." That is the kind of attitude that God blesses and God honors, because it is a truthful, biblical attitude that will enable us to see the greatness and the majesty and the sovereignty and the mercy of God. Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we pray to Thee. We thank You for Your word, we thank You for Your truth, and we ask, Lord, that You would indeed help us to see ourselves, Lord.


Study Guide

Major Themes

Biblical Humility vs. Pride

Summary: True humility recognizes our complete unworthiness before God, while pride is an abomination that leads to destruction.

Evidence: Weaver cites Proverbs 16:5, 18, and other verses to show God's hatred of pride, and contrasts Jacob's 'I am not worthy' with the Pharisee's self-righteousness.

Our View of God and Self Are Inseparable

Summary: A correct biblical view of God inevitably produces a correct view of self, and vice versa.

Evidence: Weaver states, 'It's impossible to have a biblical view of God and see God as to who He is without also having a biblical view of yourself,' using Isaiah 6 as an example.

God Owes Us Nothing; All Is Grace

Summary: God is not obligated to give us anything; everything we have is by His grace and mercy alone.

Evidence: Weaver argues from Romans 11:35-36 that we cannot first give to God, and that if we think God owes us, we are lost.

Pleading God's Covenant and Promises in Prayer

Summary: Like Jacob, believers should approach God on the basis of His covenant and promises, not personal merit.

Evidence: Jacob prays to the God of Abraham and Isaac and reminds God of His promise to deal well with him, while confessing unworthiness.

The Danger of Running from Problems

Summary: Problems must be faced and resolved biblically; running from them only increases their magnitude.

Evidence: Weaver traces Jacob's flight from Esau, which turned a one-on-one conflict into a 400-to-1 threat after 20 years.

Worthiness Is Found Only in Christ

Summary: In ourselves we are completely unworthy, but Christ alone makes us worthy before God.

Evidence: Weaver states, 'Jesus Christ alone is worthy. Jesus Christ alone is the one who makes us worthy.'

Key Arguments

Pride is an abomination to God and destroys character.

Summary: Weaver argues that pride is not only sinful but leads to strife and wrath, citing multiple Proverbs.

Evidence: He quotes Proverbs 16:5, 18, 19; 21:4, 24; 28:25 to establish the biblical condemnation of pride.

A true view of God humbles us.

Summary: When we see God's holiness, we inevitably see our own sinfulness, as with Isaiah.

Evidence: Isaiah's response to seeing the Lord was 'Woe is me, for I am a man of unclean lips' (Isaiah 6).

Jacob's prayer models humble reliance on God's covenant.

Summary: Jacob does not claim God as his own but as the God of his fathers, showing deep unworthiness.

Evidence: Weaver notes Jacob says 'O God of my father Abraham' rather than 'my God,' despite being the covenant heir.

If we think God owes us, we are unsaved.

Summary: Believing God is indebted to us reveals we have never seen our own depravity.

Evidence: Weaver states, 'If you believe that God really owes you something, you're lost. You're unsaved.'

Grace and works are mutually exclusive.

Summary: Paul's argument in Romans 11 shows that if salvation is by grace, it cannot be by works.

Evidence: Weaver reads Romans 11:6: 'And if by grace, then it is no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace.'

The centurion's faith was commended because he saw his unworthiness.

Summary: Jesus marveled at the centurion's faith because he declared himself unworthy, unlike the Jews who thought he merited the miracle.

Evidence: Weaver contrasts the Greek words axios (merited) in Luke 7:4 with hikanos (unfit) in Luke 7:6-7.

We must not run from problems; they escalate.

Summary: Jacob's 20-year exile turned a personal conflict into a life-threatening encounter with 400 men.

Evidence: Weaver traces the narrative from Genesis 27:41 to Genesis 32, showing the increased danger.

Humility produces gratitude and obedience.

Summary: A heart that knows its unworthiness will be thankful for any mercy and will seek to obey out of love.

Evidence: Weaver cites Jeremiah 44:10 to show that the unhumbled do not fear or walk in God's law.

Scripture References

Genesis 32:10

Context: Jacob's prayer: 'I am not worthy of the least of all the mercies...'

Psalm 100:3

Context: Know ye that the Lord he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves.

Proverbs 16:18

Context: Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.

Proverbs 16:5

Context: Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord.

Proverbs 16:19

Context: Better it is to be of an humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud.

Proverbs 21:4

Context: An high look, and a proud heart, and the plowing of the wicked, is sin.

Proverbs 21:24

Context: Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud wrath.

Proverbs 28:25

Context: He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife.

Isaiah 6:1-5

Context: Isaiah's vision of the Lord and his cry of woe.

Genesis 31:7, 41

Context: Jacob recounts Laban's deception and changed wages.

Hebrews 13:20-21

Context: The everlasting covenant through Christ makes us complete.

Genesis 33:5, 8-11

Context: Jacob attributes his family and possessions to God's grace.

Romans 11:33-36

Context: God's unsearchable judgments; no one has first given to Him.

Psalm 22:6

Context: David says, 'I am a worm, and no man.'

Proverbs 30:2

Context: Agur says, 'Surely I am more brutish than any man.'

Luke 5:8

Context: Peter says, 'Depart from me; for I am a sinful man, O Lord.'

Historical References

Septuagint (LXX)

Context: The Greek translation of the Old Testament, used to explain the word 'worthy' as hikanos.

Pharisees

Context: Contrasted with the humble publican in Luke 18; example of self-righteous pride.

Important Quotes

I am not worthy of the least of all thy mercies and of all the truth which thou hast showed unto thy servant.

Significance: This is the central verse of the sermon, expressing Jacob's deep humility and recognition of God's grace.

Your attitude reveals your estimate of yourself and God.

Significance: The title and thesis of the message, summarizing the inseparable link between self-view and God-view.

It's impossible to have a biblical view of God and see God as to who He is without also having a biblical view of yourself.

Significance: Key theological principle that a true vision of God humbles us.

God does not owe you anything. God does not owe me anything. God does not owe anyone anything but justice, and I can assure you that we do not want that at all.

Significance: Emphasizes that all blessings are of grace, not debt.

If you believe that God owes you, if you believe that God is indebted to you, if you believe that you deserve to be treated better than you are, then you've never seen yourself as a lost, miserable, depraved, and wicked sinner.

Significance: A strong diagnostic statement about the state of one's soul.

Jesus Christ alone is worthy. Jesus Christ alone is the one who makes us worthy.

Significance: The gospel solution: our worthiness is only in Christ.

If we really had a correct biblical view of ourselves, of our sin, and of our depravity, we would be willing to physically fight the Apostle Paul for the position of chief of sinners.

Significance: A vivid illustration of how deep our sense of sin should be.

If you have to tell me how humble you are, you're not. If you have to tell me how holy you are, you're not.

Significance: Practical test of genuine humility versus self-promotion.

Discussion Questions

How does the world's emphasis on self-esteem conflict with the biblical teaching on humility and unworthiness?

Context: Weaver contrasts modern self-worth programs with Jacob's confession.

In what ways does our attitude reveal our estimate of God? Can you think of personal examples?

Context: The sermon's title and thesis are explored throughout.

Why is it impossible to be humble and proud at the same time, according to the sermon?

Context: Weaver states this impossibility and links it to seeing God correctly.

How does Jacob's prayer in Genesis 32 model the way we should approach God in times of fear?

Context: Jacob pleads the covenant and promises while confessing unworthiness.

What does it mean that 'God does not owe us anything'? How should that affect our prayers and expectations?

Context: Weaver argues from Romans 11 that we cannot put God in our debt.

How does the centurion's attitude in Luke 7 contrast with the Jews' assessment of him? What does this teach about faith?

Context: The Jews said he was worthy; the centurion said he was not.

Why is running from problems dangerous, and how did Jacob's story illustrate this?

Context: Jacob's 20-year exile turned a personal conflict into a life-threatening situation.

How can a deep sense of unworthiness produce gratitude and obedience rather than despair?

Context: Weaver explains that humility leads to thankful obedience, not license.

Applications

Cultivate a biblical view of self by meditating on God's holiness.

Summary: Regularly reflect on passages like Isaiah 6 to see God's majesty and your own sinfulness, leading to genuine humility.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'When you have a biblical view of God, you're inevitably going to have a biblical view of yourself.'

Approach God in prayer by pleading His covenant and promises, not your merit.

Summary: Like Jacob, remind God of His promises and your relationship through Christ, while confessing unworthiness.

Evidence: Jacob prays to the God of Abraham and Isaac and claims God's promise to deal well with him.

Confess your fears to God openly.

Summary: Jacob admitted his fear of Esau; we should be honest with God about our fears, trusting Him to help.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'We should not be shy in telling God our fears. Number one, He already knows them.'

Face problems biblically instead of running from them.

Summary: Unresolved issues grow worse over time; seek resolution through confrontation, forgiveness, and wisdom.

Evidence: Jacob's flight turned a one-on-one conflict into a 400-man threat after 20 years.

Let others praise you; do not praise yourself.

Summary: Genuine humility is demonstrated by actions, not self-promotion. If you have to announce your humility, it is false.

Evidence: Weaver cites Proverbs 27:2 and says, 'If you have to tell me how humble you are, you're not.'

Be grateful for every mercy, recognizing you deserve none.

Summary: A sense of unworthiness transforms our perspective, making us thankful for even the smallest blessings.

Evidence: The Syrophoenician woman was willing to take crumbs, and Jacob said he was not worthy of the least mercies.

Obey God out of love and gratitude, not to earn favor.

Summary: A humbled heart seeks to obey not to become worthy, but because it is already loved by grace.

Evidence: Weaver says a truly humbled heart 'will seek to obey out of a heart of love and gratitude.'

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