Destruction and Deliverance
John Weaver | YouTube
| Lecture Metadata | Details |
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| Speaker | John Weaver |
| Source | YouTube |
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| Subject | Covenant Theology |
| Course | Covenant Theology: Blessings, Curses, and Sanctions: A Time Of Need |
| Genre | Sermon |
| Date | 2024-04-27 |
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| Book | Book 043: Covenant Theology: Blessings, Curses, and Sanctions: A Time Of Need — Chapter 20 |
| Source Timed Segments | 73 |
Synopsis: Pastor John Weaver contrasts biblical counsel with humanistic counsel, using Proverbs 1–2 to show that rejecting God's wisdom leads to destruction while heeding it brings deliverance. He illustrates worldly wisdom through Jonadab and Ahithophel, and emphasizes that all counsel is either godly or humanistic, with no neutral ground. The sermon calls believers to examine their lives, choose life by obeying God's Word, and warns that persistent refusal of divine counsel results in God's silence in times of calamity.
Formatted Transcript
Introduction to Counsel and Its Importance
Weaver introduces the topic of counsel, noting that people often seek advice in difficult situations, but most counseling is humanistic rather than biblical.
Let's open our Bibles to the book of Proverbs chapter 1. We're going to be looking at actually chapters 1 and chapter 2. The title of the message is "Destruction and Deliverance." So I want you to look at Proverbs chapter 1, and let's just read a few verses to begin with, with verse 1: "The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel; to know wisdom and instruction; to perceive the words of understanding; to receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, and judgment, and equity; to give subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion."
"A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels: to understand a proverb, and the interpretation; the words of the wise, and their dark sayings. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction."
Counsel is often required, and at times it is demanded and necessary. We need counsel usually in a multitude of areas. When you stop and think about counsel, it usually revolves around a situation or circumstance where you find yourself and you really just simply do not know what to do. I've often said that a problem is not a problem if you know what to do; you just have problems when you are totally ignorant or foolish, and you don't know what to do.
And people get themselves in so many situations, and so much trouble so often. But sometimes we get involved in things, our emotions get so ratcheted up that we just need help sorting things out. And so consequently, then we have to have counsel. And a lot of people will go to a hired counselor. Sometimes they will go to their pastor, sometimes they'll go to a family member, sometimes they'll go to a friend.
But the truth of the matter is this: most of the time, we do not understand a distinction in counseling. The truth is, in reality—and I'll explain that statement just momentarily—but the truth is, in reality, that our entire lives are based upon counsel. And they're based upon the counsel that we learned as we were maturing, based upon the counsel that we acquired while we were being educated. And sometimes, of course, we receive counsel from our friends and they have been educated the same way we've been educated. And so consequently, most people have never really understood that most counseling is absolutely humanistic to the core. In other words, there's a vast difference, which we're going to see today, between biblical counseling and humanistic counseling. So I want you to look very quickly at just three passages just to show you the importance of counseling in the Word of God. So if you look in Proverbs chapter 11 and verse 14, Proverbs 11 and verse 14, the Bible makes this statement: "Where no counsel is, the people fall."
Biblical Foundation for Counsel
He cites Proverbs 11:14, 15:22, and 24:6 to establish that counsel is essential and that a multitude of counselors provides safety.
"But in the multitude of counsellors there is safety."
So where no counsel is, the people fall. If you look in Proverbs chapter 15 and verse 22, Proverbs 15 and verse 22, the Bible says,
"Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established."
So apart from counsel, then purposes, he says, are disappointed. Then if you look in Proverbs chapter 24 and verse 6, Proverbs 24 and verse 6, the Bible says, "For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors there is safety." So what is not apparent to a lot of people when it comes to counseling and counselors is that there is a vast difference between biblical counsel and what you and I would call humanistic or worldly counsel. That difference is between destruction and deliverance. I can give you a good illustration of humanistic counseling.
Illustrations of Worldly Wisdom
Weaver gives examples of Jonadab and Ahithophel as men who were wise in evil, showing that worldly counsel can be cunning but leads to wickedness.
Let me give you two verses. The first one is Jeremiah chapter 4 and verse 22. Listen to this. God said,
"For my people is foolish, they have not known me; they are sottish children, and they have none understanding: they are wise to do evil, but to do good they have no knowledge."
They're wise to do evil, but to do good they have no knowledge. And then the Word of God says in 1 Corinthians chapter 3 and verse 19, "For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness." So there is a worldly wisdom and there is a worldly counsel. And it's completely, totally contrary to God. Now, I want to give you just very quickly, before I expound on Proverbs 1 and 2, two illustrations of individuals who were wise in evil. So I want you to turn in your Bibles, if you would, first of all, to 2 Samuel chapter 13, 2 Samuel chapter 13.
And I'm going to share with you here about Jonadab. And Jonadab was a very subtle man, the Bible tells you. Jonadab is the man who actually gave Amnon, who would have been a cousin, he actually gave to Amnon the plan to rape his half-sister Tamar. So if you'll look in 2 Samuel chapter 13 verse 1:
"And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her. But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man. And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister. And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick."
"And when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand. So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand. Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon's house, and dress him meat." And, of course, you know the outcome. He did indeed rape his sister, his half-sister. And she begged him not to. She said, "If you really want to marry me, ask the king; he will not withhold me from thee." But she said, "Do not do this evil. Do not do this foolishness." And, of course, he would not listen. But notice, if you would, the Bible refers to Jonadab as a very subtle man. And the Hebrew word for subtle here literally means to be wise, to be skillful, to be shrewd, to be cunning, to be crafty, to be wily and learned. And so certainly this man was learned in evil and wickedness.
He planned this thing for Amnon. Of course, it resulted two years later in Amnon's death. Now, the second illustration is found in 2 Samuel chapter 16, and this is in reference to Ahithophel. Ahithophel was the counselor of David. And when Absalom rebelled against his father David, Ahithophel joined in the rebellion. Now, there's an interesting verse about Ahithophel. And if you look in 2 Samuel 16 and verse 23, you will see this verse. Listen to it:
"And the counsel of Ahithophel, which he counselled in those days, was as if a man had enquired at the oracle of God: so was all the counsel of Ahithophel both with David and with Absalom."
Now, I must say that that is quite a compliment. That is quite an astounding statement, to say that Ahithophel's counsel was as if one, you know, listened to the oracles of God. He always gave wise and sagacious counseling. However, that wise and sagacious counseling oftentimes, or at least in one time, led to that which was evil, wicked, and wrong. So if you look back in 2 Samuel 16, beginning there with verse 20, because Absalom now has come into Jerusalem. David has been driven from the throne and driven from the town. And so, verse 20:
"Then said Absalom to Ahithophel, Give counsel among you what we shall do. And Ahithophel said unto Absalom, Go in unto thy father's concubines, which he hath left to keep the house; and all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father: then shall the hands of all that are with thee be strong. So they spread Absalom a tent upon the top of the house; and Absalom went in unto his father's concubines in the sight of all Israel."
Now, here's an amazing statement and here's an amazing act, that he went into his father's concubines in the sight of all Israel. Everyone knew exactly what he was doing. Now, Ahithophel gave this counsel. Now you can see that the counsel very obviously was wicked, wrong, and vile. But it was designed to accomplish one particular end. And that was it. And if you look at it in verse 21, let me read it again:
"And Ahithophel said unto Absalom, Go in unto thy father's concubines, which he hath left to keep the house."
In other words, you're going to defile your father's concubines. "And all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father." Now look what he says: "Then shall the hands of all that are with thee be strong." In other words, here's what the fellow is saying: Absalom, you go into your father's concubines. Why? Well, here's why. Because the father forgave the son, but he's not going to forgive those who were with the son. And so everybody's going to be hesitating and say, "We're not going to fight because Absalom could go back and get reconciled with his father, then where are we going to be?" But when Absalom did what he did, he was saying publicly, "I'm not asking forgiveness. I'm not going back. This is the way it's going to be. I'm either going to kill my father or my father's going to kill me. That's it." So the hands of all them will be strong. In other words, they will fight for him because he is not going to back up and back down. So while the counsel that Ahithophel gave him was what you and I would refer to as wicked and vile, yet it was designed to accomplish one end, and that was to unify those men who were going to fight with Absalom.
So, many individuals are wise when it comes to this world. They're wise in sin. They're wise in wickedness.
Contrast Between Worldly and Godly Wisdom
Using James 3:13-18, he distinguishes earthly, sensual, devilish wisdom from the pure, peaceable wisdom from above.
So the scripture asks this question: "Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom." That is good conduct. Now, I'm going to hasten to tell you, and I'm going to say this again: from wherever you receive your counsel, it's going to be made known because you're going to act out your counsel. So this is what he's saying in verse 13: "Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you?" If you're wise, if you're endued with knowledge, inevitably, you're going to show out of a good conversation, a good conduct, your works with meekness of wisdom. But look at verse 14. But here's the contrast. "But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work."
Now here's another distinction: "But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace." Now, Gary, I don't have my Greek text in front of me, but verse 17 is the very first word—is it "alla"? A-L-L-A. Is that what it is? "De." Okay. Usually you will find the word "alla." There's the "de." But "alla" is a strong word of contrast, but still "de" is a word of contrast; "alla" is just a little bit stronger. But note, if you would, "but"—and he gives you the "but." So there is a distinction between those two things. Now, we fail to grasp, as you turn back to Proverbs 1, we fail to grasp another very significant truth. It's a small truth, but yet it is very significant, and here it is: that one sin always leads to another sin. One sin always leads to another sin. Sin may begin small and seemingly insignificant, but it builds and builds and builds until it comes to a crescendo and all of a sudden it is something that just completely destroys you. So every sin then leads to another sin. And it's going to build up into something extremely huge and large. And we tend to forget that every big thing or every large thing is made up of a series of small things.
The Progression of Sin and the Call of Wisdom
Weaver explains from Proverbs 1:10-23 that sin escalates from small steps to destruction, and biblical wisdom cries out publicly, calling for repentance.
So let me just show you what I'm talking about. So Solomon gives some wisdom, beginning there in verse 10. And let's read through verse 19. Watch this. He says, "My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not. If they say, Come with us, let us lay wait for blood, let us lurk privily for the innocent without cause: let us swallow them up alive as the grave; and whole, as those that go down into the pit." "We shall find all precious substance, we shall fill our houses with spoil: cast in thy lot among us; let us all have one purse: my son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from their path: for their feet run to evil, and make haste to shed blood. Surely in vain the net is spread in the sight of any bird. And they lay wait for their own blood; they lurk privily for their own lives."
"So are the ways of every one that is greedy of gain; which taketh away the life of the owners thereof." Now, I want to show you something in this particular passage. You know, in the book of 1 Corinthians, the Word of God says, "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners." And that is when you associate with people that is with wicked people, vile people, you're going to be corrupted. That's all there is to it. So I want you to see in Proverbs 1 this truth that I'm going to show you right now from Psalm 1 and verse 1. So I want you to look in Psalm 1, verse 1, the very first Psalm, and then we're going back to Proverbs 1. Look what David says in Psalm 1:
"Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful."
So let's take that verse apart. He says,
"Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly."
So what is counsel? Let's say it's advice. They're telling you how to live. So he says, do not walk in the advice or the counsel of the ungodly. Well, what happens if you start listening to the advice of the ungodly? Here's the next:
"nor standeth in the way of sinners."
That's association. Once you start listening to their advice, you begin associating with them. What's the third step? Here it is:
"nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful."
That's agreement. So once you listen to the voice, you begin associating. Once you begin associating, you end up agreeing with them. So when you look back in Proverbs chapter 1 in verse 10, he says, "My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not."
In other words, ignore them. Do not listen to them. Turn away from them. Do not associate with them whatsoever; turn from them. In other words, you're looking at something like this where they're talking about robbery, they're talking about theft, inevitably, it involves murder. And you start out with something small, but it builds up into something absolutely abominable and great in wickedness. I was reading this past week of an 11-year-old boy who pulled a pistol on a woman to steal from her and even to try to hijack her car. 11 years old.
And here's what the psalmist is saying: No, no, no. Don't listen to them. Don't go in their way. Don't listen to all their pleadings. So what they're saying is this: "Cast in thy lot with us. We're going to have one purse. We're going to get rich, we're going to divide everything." And then he starts talking about murder as well. So the truth of the matter is this:
Each small step always leads up to something great, something big, something huge. And all the promises that you find in verses 10 through 19 are all based upon what you and I would call humanistic or worldly counsel and reasoning and advice. That's all it is. And each one of these is absolutely contrary to the law of God and to the counsel of God.
Now, I want you to look at this. So once he gives you an illustration of what not to listen to in verses 10 through 19, I want you to look at verses 20 through 23. Here is biblical wisdom crying out. Here's biblical counsel crying out. He says, "Wisdom crieth without; she uttereth her voice in the streets: she crieth in the chief place of concourse, in the openings of the gates: in the city she uttereth her words, saying, How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity?" "And the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge. Turn you at my reproof: behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you."
Consequences of Rejecting God's Counsel
He warns from Proverbs 1:24-32 that those who refuse God's counsel will face calamity and find no answer when they finally cry out.
It is—look in verse 24: "Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded; but ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh; when your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction cometh as a whirlwind; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me: for that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD: they would none of my counsel: they despised all my reproof." "Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them." So turning away from God's truth, turning away from God's counsel, turning away from God's wisdom always leads to destruction.
Deliverance Through Obedience
Weaver highlights Proverbs 1:33 and Isaiah 55:3, showing that hearkening to God brings safety, quiet from fear, and an everlasting covenant.
Now, when we talk about deliverance, you have to remember this: deliverance is the opposite of destruction, just like life is the opposite of death. Exactly as blessings are the opposite of cursings. So if you look in your Bibles, in Proverbs 1 and verse 33, he ends with this verse:
"But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil."
So here's deliverance, but deliverance is only to those who hearken, only those who listen. Now, the interesting thing is, the phrase "but whoso hearkeneth" is from the Hebrew word "shema,
" which literally emphasizes a certain truth. That means to hear, to listen to, to obey, to hear with attention, to hear with understanding, and to consent as well as to be obedient. So when he's talking then about hearkening unto me, it's not just an audible hearing, it's a spiritual hearing as well. Because you don't only hear audibly, you end up in obedience as well. Now, the obedient, he said, shall dwell safely. The obedient shall be quiet from the fear of evil.
Now, there is a verse in Isaiah 55, in verse 3, where God says this:
"Incline your ear, and come unto me: hear, and your soul shall live; and I will make an everlasting covenant with you, even the sure mercies of David."
So listen to what he said:
"Incline your ear, and come unto me."
Then he said,
"Hear, and your soul shall live."
Then he said,
"And I will make an everlasting covenant with you, and I will give you the sure mercies of David."
Now, this is a wonderful truth. It is a wonderful promise. However, there is a problem. The problem is not with God. The problem is not with God's promise. The problem is with us. Because we are sinful, we are depraved, and therefore we desire and we prefer our own ways, and we prefer anything that will satisfy our flesh and our wicked desires. It's just that simple. Here's an interesting thought.
The Necessity of Diligent Seeking
He stresses from Proverbs 2:1-9 that understanding requires active pursuit—receiving, hiding, inclining, crying out, and seeking wisdom as treasure.
to the book of Proverbs chapter 2. Now watch this, if you would. Proverbs chapter 2, look in verse 1, after he said in verse 33 of chapter 1, "But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil." Now look in chapter 2, verse 1:
"My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee; so that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding; yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God. For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding. He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly. He keepeth the paths of judgment, and preserveth the way of his saints."
Now I want you to listen very carefully. When you look at those first few verses in Proverbs chapter 2, he says,
"My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide
my commandments with thee; so that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding; yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; if thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God." Now, God says if you will receive, if you will hide, if you will indeed incline, if you will apply, if you will cry, if you lift up your voice, if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hid treasures, skip down to verse 9: "Then shalt thou understand righteousness, and judgment, and equity; yea, every good path." Wow.
Deliverance from Evil Men and the Strange Woman
Weaver explains that biblical wisdom delivers from the way of evil men and the seduction of the strange woman, preserving the upright.
Consequently, you're going to have then deliverance instead of destruction. Now, let me show you. What in the world are you going to be delivered from? Well, let's look in verse 10. Proverbs 2, verse 10: "When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul; discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee." Oh, it's going to keep you, it's going to deliver you. From what? "To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things; who leave the paths of uprightness, to walk in the ways of darkness; who rejoice to do evil, and delight in the frowardness of the wicked; whose ways are crooked, and they froward in their paths." So God says, if you will listen to my wisdom, if you will take my counsel, you're going to be delivered from an evil man, the man that speaketh wicked things, the man who walks out of the path of righteousness, the man who delights in that which is evil. God said you'll be delivered
from him, but that's not all. Skip down to verse 16: "To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words; which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God. For her house inclineth unto death, and her paths unto the dead. None that go unto her return again, neither take they hold of the paths of life." So God says, here it is. You can have biblical wisdom and biblical counsel and be delivered, or you can have humanistic wisdom and humanistic counsel and be destroyed. It's just that simple.
Final Contrast: Life and Death Set Before Us
He concludes with Deuteronomy 11:26, 30:19, and Jeremiah 21:8, urging believers to choose life by obeying God's commandments.
shall be cut off from the earth, and the transgressors shall be rooted out of it." So when you look at Proverbs chapter 1 and Proverbs chapter 2, you see this strong contrast then between humanistic counsel and wisdom and biblical counsel and wisdom. Humanism always leads to death and destruction. Biblical divine wisdom and counsel always leads to deliverance and to life. I want you to think with me and I want you to follow me just for three or four passages. Here's the first application. I want you to see what God has done is He has set before us life and death. He has set before us blessings and curses. So He is telling us that we may choose life and we may choose blessings or we may choose death and we may choose curses. So let's go back in our Bibles, if you would, first of all to Deuteronomy chapter 11. Deuteronomy 11, and look, if you would please, at verse 26. Deuteronomy 11 verse 26. Look at this, look what God says. Deuteronomy 11 verse 26.
"Behold, I set before you this day a blessing and a curse; a blessing, if ye obey the commandments of the LORD your God, which I command you this day: and a curse, if ye will not obey the commandments of the LORD your God, but turn aside out of the way which I command you this day, to go after other gods, which ye have not known." So God said, I've set before you blessings and curses. Now if you would turn in your Bibles to the book of Deuteronomy chapter 30. Deuteronomy chapter 30, and look, if you would please, at verse 19. Deuteronomy 30 and verse 19: "I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live."
So what did he say? I've set before you life and death, blessing and curses. I want you to choose life. Now, if you would turn right over in your Bibles to the book of Jeremiah chapter 21. Look in Jeremiah chapter 21 and verse 8. Jeremiah 21 and verse 8. Here's what God tells Jeremiah. Jeremiah 21 verse 8: "And unto this people thou shalt say, Thus saith the LORD; Behold, I set before you the way of life, and the way of death." You know the Bible tells you in Proverbs 12 and verse 28, "In the way of righteousness is life; and in the pathway thereof there is no death." In the way of righteousness is life. We can say in the way of biblical counsel there is life. In the way of biblical wisdom there is life. I want you to turn to one more passage. This is my second and last application, and you will find this in the book of Zechariah chapter 7. Zechariah is next to the last book of the Old Testament, Zechariah, then Malachi. So look in Zechariah chapter 7, if you would, and just wait there just for a moment.
The Law of Retribution and Call to Self-Examination
Weaver applies the lex talionis from Zechariah 7:11-13, warning that God will not hear those who refused to hear Him, and calls for self-examination.
This is known as the lex talionis, which I've mentioned before, which is the law of retribution. It's where God makes the punishment fit the crime. The crime in Proverbs 1 was a refusal to hear God, to listen to God, to receive his counsel and receive his wisdom. The retribution was when they're in trouble and at the end of their life and they're being destroyed, they're crying and God says, "I'm not listening. You wouldn't listen to me. I'm not listening to you." And the fact is he says that again if you'll look at Zechariah chapter 7 and verse—let's begin reading with verse 11. Look at this: "But they refused to hearken, and pulled away the shoulder, and stopped their ears, that they should not hear. Yea, they made their hearts
as an adamant stone, lest they should hear the law, and the words which the LORD of hosts hath sent in his spirit by the former prophets: therefore came a great wrath from the LORD of hosts. Therefore it is come to pass, that as he cried, and they would not hear; so they cried, and I would not hear, saith the LORD of hosts." God said, I cried, I told you to listen, I commanded you to listen, and you refused. You would not hear me. Now, therefore, you're crying and I'm not going to hear you. It's just like I said earlier, you don't leave something that is extremely valuable just laying around out in the open. And when you refuse God's words, and God's counsel, and God's wisdom, He will take it, and He says, "You don't want it? Fine. When you want it, it'll probably be too late, but I'm just saying, I call, you refuse; you call, I'm not listening." Our entire life, all of our life will either be following biblical counsel or humanistic counsel. So here's the question: how do I know whether or not I'm following humanistic counsel or biblical counsel?
And the answer is very simple. Examine your life. See if what you're doing is biblical, because the scripture says, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he" (Proverbs 23:7). Proverbs 4:23, "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." We actually live out that which we think, that which we believe. David said in Psalm 116, "I believed, therefore have I spoken." We can always tell whether or not we're following biblical wisdom or humanistic wisdom by what we think and what we do. And God says, choose life. And choose blessings. Bring your life into conformity to the Word of God, and in the path of righteousness there is deliverance.
Study Guide
Major Themes
Biblical vs. Humanistic Counsel
Summary: All counsel is either rooted in God's Word or in humanistic thinking; there is no neutral ground, and the choice determines destruction or deliverance.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'there's a vast difference... between biblical counseling and humanistic counseling' and 'you're either following biblical counsel or you're following humanistic counsel.'
The Progression of Sin
Summary: Sin begins small but builds into greater wickedness, as seen in the enticement of sinners in Proverbs 1:10-19.
Evidence: He says, 'one sin always leads to another sin... it builds and builds and builds until it comes to a crescendo.'
The Call of Wisdom and Human Refusal
Summary: God's wisdom cries out publicly, but people often refuse to listen, leading to their own destruction.
Evidence: Weaver reads Proverbs 1:20-23 and comments on the refusal of Israel to hear God's prophets.
Consequences of Rejecting God's Counsel
Summary: Those who despise God's counsel will face calamity, and God will not answer when they cry out in distress.
Evidence: He cites Proverbs 1:24-31 and Zechariah 7:11-13, emphasizing the lex talionis principle.
Deliverance Through Obedience and Seeking
Summary: Deliverance comes to those who actively seek God's wisdom, incline their ear, and obey His commandments.
Evidence: Weaver expounds Proverbs 2:1-9 and 1:33, stressing the conditional 'if' and the promise of safety.
The Choice Between Life and Death
Summary: God sets before His people life and death, blessing and cursing, and commands them to choose life by obeying His Word.
Evidence: He references Deuteronomy 11:26, 30:19, and Jeremiah 21:8, urging believers to 'choose life.'
Key Arguments
Counsel is Inescapable and Determines Destiny
Summary: Every person lives by some form of counsel, and the source of that counsel—biblical or humanistic—determines whether they experience destruction or deliverance.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'our entire lives are based upon counsel... most people have never really understood that most counseling is absolutely humanistic to the core.'
Worldly Wisdom is Crafty but Wicked
Summary: Examples like Jonadab and Ahithophel show that humanistic counsel can be shrewd and effective for evil purposes, but it is contrary to God.
Evidence: He describes Jonadab as 'a very subtil man' and Ahithophel's counsel as 'wicked, wrong, and vile' yet designed to unify Absalom's followers.
Sin Escalates from Small Beginnings
Summary: The enticement of sinners in Proverbs 1 illustrates how listening to ungodly counsel leads from small compromises to grave sins like robbery and murder.
Evidence: Weaver explains, 'you start out with something small, but it builds up into something absolutely abominable and great in wickedness.'
Rejecting God's Counsel Invites Divine Retribution
Summary: God's response to those who refuse His wisdom is to laugh at their calamity and refuse to answer when they cry out, a just retribution for their prior rejection.
Evidence: He quotes Proverbs 1:26-28 and Zechariah 7:13, 'as he cried, and they would not hear; so they cried, and I would not hear.'
Active Seeking is Required for Understanding
Summary: Biblical wisdom is not passively received; it requires diligent effort—crying out, seeking as for hidden treasure—before God grants understanding.
Evidence: Weaver emphasizes the conditional 'if' in Proverbs 2:1-5 and says, 'God is not going to give us truth willy-nilly.'
Obedience Brings Deliverance from Evil
Summary: Those who embrace God's wisdom are delivered from the way of evil men and the seduction of the strange woman, preserving their path in righteousness.
Evidence: He reads Proverbs 2:10-19, noting that wisdom 'shall preserve thee' and 'deliver thee from the way of the evil man.'
Life and Death are Set Before Us
Summary: God explicitly presents a choice between life and death, blessing and cursing, and commands His people to choose life through obedience.
Evidence: Weaver cites Deuteronomy 30:19, 'I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life.'
Scripture References
Proverbs 1:1-4
Context: Introduction to the purpose of Proverbs: to know wisdom, instruction, and discretion.
Proverbs 1:5-7
Context: A wise man will hear and increase learning; the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
Proverbs 11:14
Context: Where no counsel is, the people fall; in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
Proverbs 15:22
Context: Without counsel purposes are disappointed; in the multitude of counselors they are established.
Proverbs 24:6
Context: By wise counsel you shall make your war; in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
Jeremiah 4:22
Context: God's people are foolish, wise to do evil but to do good they have no knowledge.
1 Corinthians 3:19
Context: The wisdom of this world is foolishness with God; He takes the wise in their own craftiness.
2 Samuel 13:1-14
Context: Jonadab's subtle counsel to Amnon to rape Tamar, illustrating worldly wisdom used for evil.
2 Samuel 16:20-23
Context: Ahithophel's counsel to Absalom to lie with his father's concubines, a wicked but shrewd plan.
James 3:13-18
Context: Contrast between earthly, sensual, devilish wisdom and the wisdom from above that is pure and peaceable.
Proverbs 1:10-19
Context: Warning against enticement by sinners; their path leads to destruction.
Psalm 1:1
Context: Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the way of sinners.
Proverbs 1:20-23
Context: Wisdom cries out in the streets, calling the simple to turn at her reproof.
Proverbs 1:24-32
Context: Because they refused God's counsel, He will laugh at their calamity and not answer when they call.
Proverbs 1:33
Context: Whoever listens to wisdom will dwell safely and be quiet from fear of evil.
Isaiah 55:3
Context: Incline your ear and come to Me; hear, and your soul shall live; I will make an everlasting covenant with you.
2 Kings 17:13-14
Context: Israel refused to hear the prophets and hardened their necks, not believing in the Lord.
Leviticus 26:14-17
Context: If you despise My statutes, I will appoint terror and consumption over you; your enemies will eat your seed.
Isaiah 30:8-14
Context: Because they despise God's word and trust in oppression, their iniquity will break them like a potter's vessel.
Proverbs 2:1-9
Context: If you receive My words and cry for understanding, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find knowledge.
Historical References
Jonadab's counsel to Amnon
Context: Jonadab, a subtle man, advised Amnon to feign illness and request Tamar to prepare food, leading to her rape.
Ahithophel's counsel to Absalom
Context: Ahithophel advised Absalom to lie with David's concubines publicly to strengthen the hands of his followers.
Israel's refusal to hear the prophets
Context: Throughout the Old Testament, Israel repeatedly refused to listen to God's prophets, hardening their necks.
Important Quotes
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Significance: Establishes the foundational principle that true knowledge starts with reverence for God, contrasting the wise and fools.
For my people is foolish, they have not known me; they are sottish children, and they have none understanding: they are wise to do evil, but to do good they have no knowledge.
Significance: Illustrates the perversion of wisdom when it is used for evil rather than good, supporting the contrast between worldly and godly wisdom.
But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
Significance: Defines the characteristics of divine wisdom, contrasting it sharply with earthly wisdom.
Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out my hand, and no man regarded; but ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when your fear cometh.
Significance: A sobering warning of divine retribution for those who reject God's counsel, central to the message of destruction.
But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.
Significance: The promise of deliverance for those who listen to God's wisdom, encapsulating the positive outcome of biblical counsel.
If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God.
Significance: Emphasizes the diligent effort required to obtain divine wisdom, a key application point.
I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live.
Significance: The ultimate call to decision, framing the entire sermon as a choice between two destinies.
Discussion Questions
What are some practical ways to distinguish between biblical counsel and humanistic counsel in everyday decisions?
Context: Weaver emphasizes that all counsel is either biblical or humanistic, with no neutral ground.
How does the example of Jonadab and Ahithophel challenge our understanding of 'wisdom' in the world?
Context: These men were shrewd and their counsel was effective for evil, showing that worldly wisdom can be crafty.
In what ways does sin 'build and build' in our lives, and how can we recognize the small steps that lead to greater sin?
Context: Weaver warns that sin begins small but escalates, using Proverbs 1:10-19 as an illustration.
Why does God 'laugh' at the calamity of those who reject His counsel, and how should this affect our view of His justice?
Context: Proverbs 1:26 describes God mocking when fear comes, a difficult concept that Weaver explains as retribution.
What does it mean to 'seek wisdom as silver' in a practical, daily sense?
Context: Weaver stresses the active pursuit of wisdom from Proverbs 2:4, contrasting passive reception with diligent effort.
How does the promise of deliverance from the 'strange woman' apply to modern temptations?
Context: Proverbs 2:16-19 warns against the seduction of the strange woman, which Weaver applies to any enticement away from God's path.
What does it mean to 'choose life' in the context of Deuteronomy 30:19, and how do we do that daily?
Context: Weaver concludes with the call to choose life by obeying God's commandments, making it a personal decision.
How can we examine our lives to determine whether we are following biblical or humanistic counsel?
Context: Weaver asks listeners to examine their lives by comparing their thoughts and actions to Scripture.
Applications
Examine the Source of Your Counsel
Summary: Evaluate whether the advice you follow in life—from media, friends, or your own reasoning—is rooted in Scripture or humanistic thinking.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'our entire lives are based upon counsel... most people have never really understood that most counseling is absolutely humanistic to the core.'
Reject Ungodly Counsel Immediately
Summary: When sinners entice you, do not consent or associate with them; turn away from their path to avoid the progression of sin.
Evidence: He says, 'My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not... ignore them. Do not listen to them.'
Actively Pursue God's Wisdom
Summary: Do not expect wisdom to come passively; cry out for understanding, seek it as hidden treasure through diligent Bible study and prayer.
Evidence: Weaver emphasizes, 'God is not going to give us truth willy-nilly... you must consider... ponder it, meditate on it.'
Choose Life by Obeying God's Commandments
Summary: Make a conscious decision to align your life with God's Word, recognizing that obedience leads to blessing and deliverance.
Evidence: He cites Deuteronomy 30:19 and urges, 'choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live.'
Heed God's Voice Before It Is Too Late
Summary: Respond to God's call now, lest you face calamity and find that He no longer answers your cries.
Evidence: Weaver warns from Proverbs 1:28, 'Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer.'
Examine Your Life for Biblical Consistency
Summary: Regularly assess whether your thoughts and actions reflect biblical wisdom or worldly thinking, as your life reveals your true counsel.
Evidence: He says, 'Examine your life. See if what you're doing is biblical... We can always tell... by what we think and what we do.'
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