Breaking The Heart Of God
John Weaver | YouTube
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| Speaker | John Weaver |
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| Subject | New Testament Studies |
| Course | Revelation Themes and Eschatological Applications |
| Genre | Sermon |
| Date | 2021-02-13 |
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| Book | Book 141: Revelation Themes and Eschatological Applications — Chapter 19 |
| Source Timed Segments | 75 |
Synopsis: In this sermon, Pastor John Weaver explores the vertical dimension of sin—how it not only harms others but grieves and breaks the heart of God. Using Ezekiel 6:9-10 as the primary text, he argues that sin is spiritual adultery, a denial of God's sufficiency, and a burden that presses down on Him. The message calls believers to consider the emotional impact of their sin on God and to seek a heart that fears and obeys Him, rather than breaking His heart.
Formatted Transcript
Introduction: The Reality of Heartbreak
Weaver opens by asking if we have ever been heartbroken, noting that betrayal by a spouse or close friend causes deep pain. He distinguishes between evil rejoicing and righteous rejoicing when the wicked are punished.
Well, let's open our Bibles today to the book of Ezekiel. Ezekiel chapter 6, and we're going to look at verses 9 and 10. Ezekiel chapter 6, verses 9 and 10. The title of the message today is "Breaking the Heart of God." Breaking the heart of God. Ezekiel chapter 6, look in verse 9. God says,
"And they that escape of you shall remember Me among the nations, whether they shall be carried captives. Because I am broken with their whorish heart which hath departed from Me, and with their eyes which go a-whoring after their idols."
"And they shall loathe themselves for the evils which they have committed in all their abominations. And they shall know that I am the Lord, and that I have not said in vain that I would do this evil unto them." I want to begin by asking this question, and I want you to think about it. Have you ever been heartbroken? Have you ever been so emotionally devastated that you could not function? Have you ever been betrayed to the extent that you considered it a relief to see the one or the ones that hurt you punished? There's a passage in Proverbs 24 and verse 17 that says this, "Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth." Yet there are times, I think, that we are absolutely glad to see that the evil is indeed punished, and punished in a biblical manner. I think at one point the Bible forbids what is known as evil rejoicing, but I think there is also, according to the Bible, that which is known as a righteous rejoicing.
So let me show you. If you'll hold Ezekiel chapter 6, but look in your Bibles, if you would please, to Psalm 58. Psalm 58. And notice, if you would please, verses 10 and 11 there. Psalm 58, beginning there with verse 10. Note, if you would, what the Scripture says. Psalm 58 and verse 10. The Word of God says, "The righteous shall rejoice when he seeth the vengeance."
Sin Has Horizontal and Vertical Consequences
Sin affects others (horizontal), but most Christians act like deists, ignoring that sin also affects God (vertical). God hates sin and is not passive; our sins burden Him.
You see, most Christians turn out to be deists instead of Christians. And when I say that, what I mean is this. Deism taught that God created the world. But what God did, He wound the universe up like a clock. And then God just simply withdrew from it, sat back, holding his arms, and now he's just simply watching the world wind down, so to speak. Well, obviously, according to deism, there's no such thing as divine intervention. There's no such thing as miracles. There's no such thing as supernatural revelation. Because God is passive, he's just simply sitting back, watching the world wind down. That is why I say that most Christians turn out to be deists instead of real biblical Christians, because they really and truly have no thought and no concern toward God and toward His will and His word.
Now, let me just point out the fact that sin has consequences. The consequences of our sin are not just simply personal. Now, it is true that the wages of sin is death. I mean, that's clearly taught in the scripture. It's also true that we reap what we sow. It is also true that the Bible says that the way of the transgressor is hard. In other words, we are going to actually not only reap what we sow, but we're going to pay for our sins in the long run. We will discover that the way of the transgressor is hard.
Now, there's another principle in Scripture that deals with the concept that I'm trying to expound. And that principle is found in Romans 14 in verse 7. Let me just quote it. The Bible says, "For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself." So the principle that's being enunciated is this, that our lives always affect other people. Our sins affect other people. Our holiness affects other people. Sin not only destroys families, individuals, churches, societies, and even nations. All we have to do to learn by example is to look what God did to Israel and to Judah in 722 B.C. and 586 B.C., and then what finally happened to Jerusalem in 70 A.D. Sin always has consequences. When you stop and think that most people express this sentiment, "Well, what I do is my business, and what I do does not affect anyone but myself." Well, that certainly is not true. They may think that is true, but when a drunk gets drunk, he does not consider the effect of that sin, not only upon his family morally, financially, socially, or even upon his neighbors. And the truth of the matter is this, when that drunk who thinks that his drinking is his business and he's not hurting anybody, when he gets in that car and rams another family and kills and maims individuals, it turns out it's far more than just his business.
So the point I'm trying to make is his sin has affected someone other than himself. It's true he's going to reap what he has sown. It is true he's going to find out the way of the transgressors hard. It is true the wages of sin is death. But his sin always affects someone else. So we need to remember this. No man lives to himself and no man dies to himself.
So what we see is this. We see the implications of this very easily when we look at man. Because our relationships to each other is what you and I would call a horizontal relationship. We can look around and see how sin affects individuals, families, churches, societies, even nations. But most of us never consider that there is a vertical aspect to sin as well. So sin not only has an effect upon man, sin also has an effect upon God. There is that vertical relationship as well. And the truth of the matter is God hates sin. God hates sin intensely. His holiness recoils from sin. Because sin is basically a denial not only of His glory, but of His person, and it seeks to dethrone God.
That's why God said in Jeremiah 44 and verse 4, "Oh, do not that abominable thing which I hate." So God says specifically that He hates sin. Now, sin affects God in the sense that it is an attack upon His external glory. It's not only an attack upon His external glory, it is an attack upon the revelation of His Word. It is an attack upon His authority, upon His sovereignty, His right to command. I want you to turn in your Bibles, if you would, to the book of Amos. Hosea, Joel, Amos. And I want you to look, please, at chapter 2. Daniel, Hosea, Joel, Amos. And look in Amos chapter 2 and watch verse 13. Look what God says to Israel. Amos 2 verse 13. He says, "Behold, I am pressed under you as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves."
God Is Pressed Down by Our Sins
Using Amos 2:13, Weaver illustrates that God is pressed under the weight of our sins like an overloaded cart. Commentators Calvin and Gill affirm that sin wearies God.
Isn't that an interesting statement? God said to Israel, "I am pressed under you as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves." What is the old expression that we have, "Never mind the horse, load the wagon"? We always hear of the straw that broke the camel's back. And I'm sure that most of you at one point or another have overloaded a wagon or overloaded a trailer. And of course, if Pat was around, he would want me to tell about those tires I had to buy him from an overloaded trailer with concrete block on it. So, I mean, we understand how you press down on a wagon that's overloaded. Well, this is exactly the illustration that God is using right here when he said that Israel has just pressed him down as a wagon is full of sheaves.
Let me give you two quotes. John Calvin said on this verse, Amos 2 and verse 13, he says, "This place admits of two interpretations. The first is that God was pressed under the Israelites as a wagon groans under too much weight, and so God expostulates that he was weighed down by the Israelites. 'You constrain me,' he says, 'to labor under your sins,' Isaiah 1:14. The sense then that God was pressed down under them may be viewed as not unsuitable and yet the more received interpretation is this, 'Behold I will bind you fast as a wagon is bound.'" And then he goes on to say this, "I am however more inclined to the first meaning that God here reprehends the Israelites because they had pressed down, he was pressed down by them." And then John Gill says it like this, "Behold, I am pressed under you with the weight of their sins, with which they had made him to serve and had wearied him."
"His patience was quite worn out. He could bear them no longer. As a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves, as a cart in harvest time, in which the sheaves of corn are carried home, when one sheave is laid upon another, till they can lay no more, and the cart is loaded and overloaded with them, and ready to break, to be pressed in the earth with them." "Thus Jehovah represents Himself as loaded and burdened with the sins of these people, and therefore would visit for them and inflict deserved punishment." Isn't that interesting? Because now God is saying, "Behold, I am pressed under you, as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves." In other words, both John Gill and John Calvin are saying that our sins, according to this passage, have an effect upon God. And here God is complaining about the sins of the Israelites. And may I point out the fact that God oftentimes in Scripture complains about the sins of His professing people. As those sins have burdened him, his long-suffering is oftentimes taxed by them, but his power is not taxed, and we're going to find, and every sinner's going to find, that inevitably, we're going to receive the righteous judgment of God. Now, let me point out what I'm going to tell you is an absolutely wonderful and glorious truth in light of all of this.
God Does Not Afflict Willingly
Lamentations 3:33 shows God takes no pleasure in chastening. Like a loving parent, He disciplines for our good, not out of malice.
There's a passage in Lamentations 3 in verse 33 that says this, talking about God,
"For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men."
Now listen to that,
"For he doth not afflict willingly or grieve the children of men."
So many people have a wrong attitude of God and a wrong concept of God. There are people, when they understand God's holiness, sometimes tend to think that God somehow is some old meanie sitting up in heaven just waiting for us to mess up just so he can whip us. But that's not true. It's not true, period. God does not afflict willingly or grieve the children of men. Do you understand that no loving parent has ever delighted in chastening his child? Why do we chasten our children? It's not because we hate them, but it's because we love them.
We want them to be honest and upright and truthful and correct. We want them to be obedient. And I can assure you that probably every parent, every loving parent anyhow, has at one time or another wept over the fact that he had to chasten his children. I never will forget my father. When he would come to whip me when I was a boy, he would say, "Now son, this is going to hurt me worse than it does you." And I thought, "Oh, boy, that's a lie." I knew better because I'd been whipped by him until I got grown and had children of my own. And it just breaks your heart. And there have been times that I've wept over the fact that I had to discipline my children. Now, if you and I would weep over the fact that we have to discipline our children, what about a loving Heavenly Father? A holy, righteous, sovereign God, whom the Bible says, "He doth not afflict willingly, nor grieve the children of men." You see, the truth is, God not only desires our obedience, God commands our obedience. And you don't discipline an obedient child. You praise an obedient child. So, what we need to comprehend is this, is that there are implications of our sins, not just horizontally, not just toward each other, but there are implications of our sins vertically, that is heavenward, in the fact that they insult our Heavenly Father.
Sin as Spiritual Adultery
Sin is likened to adultery because it declares God insufficient to satisfy us. Jeremiah 3 portrays idolatry as playing the harlot, a denial of God's sufficiency.
Now let me give you an illustration that I hope will bring this truth home to you. When a husband or a wife commits adultery, it is not simply unfaithfulness. It is that. But it is much more than that. It is a denial and a rejection of their spouse and a declaration of the fact that that spouse is insufficient to satisfy their needs. And what they're saying is, "I need something else or I need someone else." And so, really and truly, it's not just unfaithfulness, it is a statement of facts, that you're not what I need. You're insufficient. You're incapable of satisfying me.
Now just like that is true physically, it is also true spiritually. When we sin against God, we're saying to God, "You're insufficient to satisfy me. You are no longer my chief good. I need something more than you. I need something above you. I need something beyond you."
Now, let me show you. Therefore, because of this, sin in the Bible is likened unto adultery. I want you to turn in your Bibles to the book of Jeremiah chapter 3. You can see this all through the Bible. We'll look in Jeremiah chapter 3. And notice, if you would please, verse 6. Jeremiah 3 verse 6. "The Lord said also unto me in the days of Josiah the king, Hast thou seen that which backsliding Israel hath done? She is going up upon every high mountain under every green tree and there is played the harlot." Now skip down, if you would, to verse 8. "And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery, I put her away and given her a bill of divorcement, yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also." So, in this passage, God is likening idolatry to spiritual adultery.
Idolaters' hearts do actually depart from God as an adulterous wife departs from her husband. So what God is saying in Jeremiah chapter 3 is that their whorish heart, their heart of whoredom, their idolaters heart, which was full of that sin, addicted to that sin, delighted in that sin, and wedded to that sin was a denial of God and His sufficiency and His grace and His mercy. We have to understand that our sins have a vertical effect and not just a horizontal effect.
We Make God Serve with Our Sins
Isaiah 43:24 says Israel made God serve with their sins. In the New Testament, 1 Corinthians 6 shows that as members of Christ, our sins join Him to unrighteousness.
Now, I want you to think about this implication. When a spouse that is unfaithful in one sense of the word, he causes or she causes the other spouse to serve with that sin. You say, "What are you talking about?" Well, suppose here is a husband and here is a wife. And the husband begins an adulterous affair with someone else, and the wife does not even know about it, at least for a while. Yet, he keeps coming back home and pretending like everything is hunky-dory, everything is okay. And actually, what he's doing is forcing her to serve with his sin because he's totally keeping her ignorant about that sin. Ah, well let me show you something. I want you to look in your Bibles to Isaiah. Isaiah chapter 43. Isaiah 43. And look if you would please at verse 24. Isaiah 43. Look in verse 24. I'm just trying to show you that there is a vertical effect of our sins. In Isaiah 43 and verse 24. Look what God says. He says to His people, "Thou hast brought Me no sweet cane with money, neither hast Thou filled Me with the fat of Thy sacrifices, but Thou hast made Me to serve with Thy sins. Thou hast wearied Me with Thine iniquities." Thou hast made Me to serve with Thy sins. How in the world could Israel make God serve with their sins? Well, you have to remember that there was a covenantal relationship between God and Israel. And since that covenant existed, whatever Israel did affected the God of that covenant.
It's just like husbands and wives are in a covenantal relationship. And what one does affects the other. You cannot have it otherwise. Because in a covenant, two or more are bound together. And God said to Israel, "You have made me to serve with your sins."
Now, here's a good question. Is that possible in the New Testament? Is that possible in today's time? And the answer is yes. So let me show you. Turn in your Bibles to 1 Corinthians chapter 6. 1 Corinthians chapter 6. And notice if you would, and let's begin reading there with verse 13. 1 Corinthians 6 verse 13. Watch this argument. Watch what the Apostle Paul says. 1 Corinthians 6 verse 13. "Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body." So God made our bodies for Him and not for fornication. And God has both raised up the Lord and will also raise up us by His own power. Now watch carefully. "Know you not that your bodies are the members of Christ?" So we are joined to Christ in a covenantal relation. "Know you not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them the members of a harlot?"
"God forbid." By the way, whenever you see these two words, "God forbid," it literally means "perish the thought." Don't even let it enter into your mind once. Don't even consider it. Don't even think about it. So he asked, "Shall I then take the members of Christ, which members we are, and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid." Now watch. "What? Know you not that he which is joined to a harlot is one body? For two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined to the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body. But he that committed fornication sinneth against his own body. What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost, which is in you, which you have of God, and you're not your own? For you're bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and your spirit, which are his."
Now, I think everyone in this room understands a simple principle. And that principle is that we are in a covenantal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. In fact, if you read 1 Corinthians chapter 12, if you read Ephesians chapter 3 and 4, you will find out that Jesus Christ is our head and we are His body. We are joined together. Now, look back in 1 Corinthians 6 and notice if you would, verse 15. He says,
"Know you not that your bodies are the members of Christ?"
In other words, he is our head. We are his members. We are his body.
"Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid."
And then he talks about being joined to a harlot is one body, which is the marriage relationship. And then he says,
"But he that is joined to the Lord is one spirit."
So the truth of the matter is this. Listen carefully. Whenever you and I sin, we're joining Jesus Christ with that sin, whether it's adultery or whether it's anything else, because He is the head, we're the body, and we're one spirit in Him. So in essence, we're making Him serve with our sins. We're doing exactly what Israel did in the Old Testament.
Now, in Ezekiel chapter 6 and verse 9, the text that we took, God said, "I am broken with their whorish heart." That's why I title this message, "Breaking the Heart of God." God said, "I am broken with their whorish heart." The word "broken" is the Hebrew word "shabar," which means to break, to break in pieces, to tear, to crush, to break down, to hurt, to shatter, and a crush.
God Is Grieved and Broken by Sin
Ezekiel 6:9 uses 'broken' (shabar) meaning crushed. Multiple passages (Genesis 6:6, Judges 10:16, Psalm 95:10, Mark 3:5, Ephesians 4:30) show God the Father, Son, and Spirit can be grieved.
Usually it is grief, and great grief that leads to brokenness. I think that probably each one of us at one time or another has made the statement to someone who has heard us, "My heart is crushed." My heart is crushed. God said, "I'm broken. I'm crushed with your whorish heart. I'm crushed with your sins. I'm crushed with your denial. I'm crushed with your declaration of my insufficiency. I'm broken."
Now let me ask you a question. Since it's usually grief that leads to a broken heart, and by the way, you can lose a mate. You can lose a husband, you can lose a wife, you can lose a child. And the grief oftentimes is very great and it leads to a broken heart. So my question in light of this, is it possible for God to be grieved and broken in heart over our sins? Remember, it's grief that oftentimes leads to brokenness. So let me answer that question by showing you a number of passages.
I want you to turn first of all in your Bibles to Genesis chapter 6. You're going to find in this passage the very first time this word is used in the Bible. Genesis 6, look at verse 6. Interesting, Genesis 6 and verse 6. "And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart." It grieved him at his heart. And we're talking about sin. And we're talking about the wickedness of man. It grieved him at his heart.
Now, if you would turn right on over to the book of Judges, chapter 10. Judges, chapter 10. And look, if you would please, at verse 16. Joshua, Judges, Judges 10, and verse 16. This is in relation now to Israel again. Judges 10, look in verse 16. Israel had sinned. Let's read verse 15.
"And the children of Israel said unto the LORD, We have sinned. Do Thou unto us whatsoever seemeth good unto Thee, deliver us only, we pray Thee this day. And they put away the strange gods from among them, and served the LORD. And his, that is God's soul, was grieved for the misery of Israel."
So it's obviously possible for God to be grieved. If you would turn right over to Psalm 95. Psalm 95. And look if you would please there at verse 10. Psalm 95 verse 10. Psalm 95 verse 10. God says, "Forty years long was I grieved with this generation and said it is the people that do err in their heart."
"And they have not known my ways." God says, "Forty years long was I grieved." Yes, it's possible for God to be grieved. If you would turn in your Bibles to the book of Mark chapter 3, Mark chapter 3, you'll find that our Lord Jesus Christ was grieved. Jesus Christ is God incarnate. He's God in the flesh. And in Mark chapter 3 and verse 5, the Bible says this, "And when he, that is the Lord Jesus Christ, had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, he saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored whole as the other." But the Bible said he was grieved. Yes, it's possible for God to be grieved. Turn right on over to Ephesians chapter 4 and look if you would please at verse 30. Ephesians 4 and verse 30. Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians. Watch at Ephesians 4 and verse 30.
"And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God, whereby you are sealed in the day of your redemption." Wow. "And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God." So God the Father can be grieved, God the Son can be grieved, God the Holy Spirit can be grieved. Now, if you would turn right on over to the book of Hebrews, and look in chapter 3, Hebrews chapter 3, you're going to see again a restatement of that which we saw in Psalm 95. But look if you would in Hebrews chapter 3 and verse 10. Look what God says,
"Wherefore I was grieved with that generation, and said, They do always err in their heart, and they have not known my ways."
Skip down to verse 17. "But with whom was he grieved forty years?" "Was it not with them that had sinned, whose carcasses fell in the wilderness?" It is our sins, it is our wickedness, it is our disobedience and our rebellion that grieves and breaks the heart of God. Remember, if you would please, that the scripture says that God does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men. It is necessary to do so at times, but he's not some old meanie sitting in heaven just waiting to strike with a rod.
God Desires Our Obedience for Our Good
Deuteronomy 5:29 and Psalm 81 express God's longing for a heart that fears Him so He can bless and protect. Disobedience leads to being given over to our own lusts.
Now, I want you to turn to two passages. I want you to turn, first of all, to Deuteronomy chapter 5. Deuteronomy chapter 5. And then we're going to go to Psalm 81. Deuteronomy 5. And look, if you would, at verse 29. Deuteronomy 5, verse 29. Look what God said concerning Israel.
"Oh, that there were such an heart in them that they would fear Me, and keep all My commandments always, that it might be well with them and with their children forever."
What? God says,
"Oh, that there were such a heart in them that they would fear Me, and keep all My commandments always, that it might be well with them and with their children forever."
God said, "I want you to obey. I want you to be in a position for me to bless you and keep you and help you. That is my desire." His desire is not to beat us to death. His desire is that we be obedient and honor Him. Now, turn in your Bibles, if you would, to Psalm 81.
Psalm 81. And let's begin reading there with verse 8. Psalm 81 and verse 8. I want you to watch this passage. Psalm 81 verse 8. This is an astounding passage. God says in Psalm 81, verse 8, "Hear, O My people, and I will testify unto thee. O Israel, if thou wilt hearken unto Me, just listen," said God, "just listen and obey. There shall no strange God be in thee, neither shalt thou worship any strange God." Now, watch verse 10. "I am the Lord thy God which brought thee out of the land of Egypt. Open thy mouth wide, and I will fill it."
You know, you can see this. Every year, every year, under our carport, we have little house wrens come and make nests and all the equipment. We even had one make a nest in our grill. So we never even used the grill until all the birds hatched. But usually when those birds make the nest there, and they make them kind of low, you can look in and see them. And when you walk up, even if the mother bird is not there, you walk up and look in that nest, and here's three or four of those little wrens, and you make just the least little bit of noise, they're all opening their mouths, sticking their head up, waiting for you to put something in. And this is what God is saying. Look in verse 10 again. He said, "I am the Lord thy God which brought thee up out of the land of Egypt. Open thy mouth wide and I'll fill it." That's all you've got to do. I'm willing to fill it. I'm willing to feed you. But here's the sad thing. Look in verse 11. "But my people would not hearken to my voice."
"And Israel would none of me." That is, we wouldn't have anything to do with God. "So I gave them up unto their own hearts' lusts. And they walked in their own counsels." Now look what God says. "Oh, that my people had hearkened unto me, and Israel had walked in my ways." God said, "I would, that they had done that. I would, that they had obeyed me." If they obeyed Him, what would have happened? Well, look in verse 14, "I should soon have subdued their enemies and turn my hand against their adversaries." "The haters of the Lord should have submitted themselves unto him, but their time should have endured forever. He should have fed them also with the finest of the wheat and with honey out of the rock should I have satisfied him." Did you see what God is saying? God is saying, "Look, I want your obedience. I want to bless you. I want to help you." Stop and think, if you would please, of all the enemies that we have today in this world. I'm talking about the enemies, not just the Christians, which we have sufficient, but the enemies to humanity, the enemies to Americans, the enemies to people all over the world. Look at the folks who want to reduce the population of the world down to 100 million. What does that mean? They want to kill everybody else. And here's what God said. "If you had obeyed me, I would have subdued all of your enemies." If we want our enemies defeated, if we want our enemies subdued, there must be obedience to God and His Word.
There's not going to be any victory apart from God, and there's not going to be any victory apart from obedience. God said, "Open thy mouth wide and I'll fill it." If we obeyed, God said, "This and this and this I will do for you." You always want to bless and help an obedient child. You never want to help a rebellious child. You know, I had a very unusual experience this past Sunday.
Applications: Consider the Effect of Sin on God
Weaver applies the message: we are self-centered, focusing on our own hurt rather than God's; sin destroys; and we should daily pray for restraint from sinning against God.
Now let me make some applications and I want you to think of these with me. The first one is this, our sinfulness as well as our selfishness is clearly seen in the fact that we often concentrate upon our hurt, our grief, our disappointment, and our brokenness and we very, I'll say it differently, we hardly ever think of the effect that our sins have upon God. We're more concerned with our grief. We're more concerned with our hurt. We're more concerned with our brokenness than we are with God's. We have become totally man-centered instead of God-centered. Likewise, it's not just that we're concerned about our hurt and our grief and our disappointment. We're concerned about our joy, our happiness, and what pleases us. We're not concerned about what pleases God, what makes Him happy, what gives Him joy. No, no, no. We're concerned with ourselves. In that sense, we're still idolaters because we're putting ourselves above God.
We have to also, number two, understand that sin destroys. It does not delight, at least not in the long run. Yes, it is true, there is a temporary pleasure in sin. But when you consider the temporary is soon gone and the long-lasting effects of that sin still remain, it is absolute stupidity to trade a lifetime for a few minutes of unlawful pleasure. Think, if you would please, of the ruined lives, the wrecked homes, and of course, the wayward children and the devastated families that sin has produced. To sin against God is a bad, bad bargain. It's like trading a ton of gold for a single piece of fiat paper money. You have to be insane to do something like that. And basically, we have to be insane to sin against God. He is the source of our life. He holdeth our soul and life. Our times are in His hands. Why would I want to aggravate? Why would I want to intimidate? Why would I want to deny and denigrate the God who holds my soul and my life in His hand? This is why I label this message "Breaking the Heart of God." God said, "I'm broken under your whorish heart. I'm pressed down like a wagon that's been overloaded."
"You've made me to serve your sins." The third application is this, the next time you're tempted to violate the law of God, before you act, before you sin, think and reflect upon the implication of your sin upon the Lord Jesus Christ and upon our Heavenly Father. And what we need to learn is this, when God said, "Oh, that there was such a heart in them to fear me and to keep my commandments always that it might be well with them and their children forever," then we need to stop and say, "Lord, give me such a heart as that. Work in my life so that I will not break your heart." Here's a thought. How often have you asked the Lord Jesus Christ? To restrain you from sinning against him. That should be a daily prayer. John wrote in 1 John 2 and verse 1, "My little children, these things I write on you that you sin not." So we should be asking our Lord on a daily basis, "Lord, help me not to sin against thee today. Help me not to do anything that's grievous unto thee and would break your heart and hurt you. Help me to remember and think upon the implications of my actions and the implications of my attitude." Do not break the heart of God.
Study Guide
Major Themes
The Vertical Impact of Sin
Summary: Sin not only harms other people (horizontal) but also grieves and breaks the heart of God (vertical). Believers often neglect this dimension.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'most of us never consider that there is a vertical aspect to sin as well. So sin not only has an effect upon man, sin also has an effect upon God.'
Sin as Spiritual Adultery
Summary: Sin is a denial of God's sufficiency, akin to adultery, where we declare God insufficient and seek satisfaction elsewhere.
Evidence: Weaver explains, 'When we sin against God, we're saying to God, "You're insufficient to satisfy me. You are no longer my chief good."'
God's Grief and Brokenness Over Sin
Summary: God is not impassive; He is grieved and broken by human sin, as expressed in multiple scriptures.
Evidence: Weaver cites Ezekiel 6:9, 'I am broken with their whorish heart,' and notes the Hebrew word 'shabar' means to crush or break.
God's Desire for Obedience and Blessing
Summary: God longs for His people to obey so He can bless them, not to punish them. Disobedience forfeits His protection and provision.
Evidence: Weaver references Deuteronomy 5:29, 'Oh, that there were such an heart in them that they would fear Me,' and Psalm 81:10, 'Open thy mouth wide, and I will fill it.'
The Self-Centeredness of Human Grief
Summary: People focus on their own hurt and brokenness from sin's consequences, rarely considering how their sin affects God.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'we often concentrate upon our hurt, our grief, our disappointment, and our brokenness and we... hardly ever think of the effect that our sins have upon God.'
Key Arguments
Sin Burdens God Like an Overloaded Cart
Summary: Amos 2:13 depicts God as pressed down by Israel's sins, showing that sin wearies and burdens Him.
Evidence: Weaver quotes Amos 2:13, 'Behold, I am pressed under you as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves,' and cites Calvin and Gill's interpretations.
God Does Not Punish Willingly
Summary: Lamentations 3:33 reveals God takes no pleasure in afflicting people; His discipline is reluctant and loving.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'God does not afflict willingly or grieve the children of men. Do you understand that no loving parent has ever delighted in chastening his child?'
Believers Are Joined to Christ, Making Sin a Shared Affront
Summary: 1 Corinthians 6:15-17 teaches that as members of Christ, our sins involve Him, making Him serve with our iniquities.
Evidence: Weaver argues, 'Whenever you and I sin, we're joining Jesus Christ with that sin... we're making Him serve with our sins.'
Sin Is a Bad Bargain with Lasting Consequences
Summary: The temporary pleasure of sin leads to long-term destruction, making it foolish to trade a lifetime for a moment of unlawful pleasure.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'it is absolute stupidity to trade a lifetime for a few minutes of unlawful pleasure.'
Daily Prayer for Restraint from Sin Is Necessary
Summary: Believers should regularly ask God to help them not sin, reflecting on the implications of their actions on Him.
Evidence: Weaver exhorts, 'How often have you asked the Lord Jesus Christ to restrain you from sinning against him? That should be a daily prayer.'
Scripture References
Ezekiel 6:9-10
Context: Primary text: God says He is broken with Israel's whorish heart and they will loathe themselves for their abominations.
Proverbs 24:17
Context: Quoted to introduce the concept of not rejoicing when an enemy falls, distinguishing evil rejoicing from righteous rejoicing.
Psalm 58:10-11
Context: Shows the righteous will rejoice when they see God's vengeance on the wicked, indicating righteous rejoicing.
Revelation 19:1-3
Context: Heaven rejoices over God's righteous judgments on the great whore, further illustrating righteous rejoicing.
Psalm 55:12-14
Context: David laments betrayal by a close friend, showing the deep hurt of relational betrayal.
Romans 14:7
Context: Quoted to establish that no one lives or dies to himself; our actions affect others.
Jeremiah 44:4
Context: God says, 'Oh, do not that abominable thing which I hate,' showing His intense hatred of sin.
Amos 2:13
Context: God says He is pressed under Israel as a cart full of sheaves, illustrating the burden of sin.
Lamentations 3:33
Context: God does not afflict willingly or grieve the children of men, showing His reluctance to punish.
Jeremiah 3:6, 8
Context: God likens Israel's idolatry to adultery, calling it playing the harlot.
Isaiah 43:24
Context: God says Israel made Him serve with their sins and wearied Him with their iniquities.
1 Corinthians 6:13-20
Context: Paul argues that as members of Christ, joining to a harlot joins Christ to sin; believers are temples of the Holy Spirit.
Genesis 6:6
Context: It repented the Lord that He made man, and it grieved Him at His heart, showing God's grief over sin.
Judges 10:16
Context: God's soul was grieved for the misery of Israel after they repented.
Psalm 95:10
Context: God was grieved forty years with the generation that erred in heart.
Mark 3:5
Context: Jesus looked on the Pharisees with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts.
Ephesians 4:30
Context: Believers are commanded not to grieve the Holy Spirit of God.
Hebrews 3:10, 17
Context: God was grieved with the generation that sinned in the wilderness, whose carcasses fell.
Hosea 11:7-8
Context: God's heart is turned within Him, and His repentings are kindled together, showing His internal struggle over judging Israel.
Deuteronomy 5:29
Context: God expresses His desire that Israel would have a heart to fear Him and keep His commandments always.
Historical References
Destruction of Israel (722 B.C.) and Judah (586 B.C.)
Context: Weaver cites these as examples of national consequences of sin.
Destruction of Jerusalem in 70 A.D.
Context: Mentioned alongside the earlier destructions as a consequence of sin.
Admah and Zeboim
Context: Cities of the plain destroyed with Sodom and Gomorrah, used in Hosea 11:8 to show God's reluctance to judge.
John Calvin's commentary on Amos 2:13
Context: Calvin interpreted the verse as God being pressed down by Israel's sins, which Weaver cites as support.
John Gill's commentary on Amos 2:13
Context: Gill similarly interpreted the verse as God being burdened by sins, ready to break under the weight.
Important Quotes
I am broken with their whorish heart which hath departed from Me, and with their eyes which go a-whoring after their idols.
Significance: The key text of the sermon, showing God's broken heart over Israel's spiritual adultery.
Behold, I am pressed under you as a cart is pressed that is full of sheaves.
Significance: Illustrates the weight of sin upon God, a central metaphor in the message.
For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men.
Significance: Emphasizes God's reluctance to punish, countering the view of God as eager to judge.
Thou hast made Me to serve with thy sins. Thou hast wearied Me with Thine iniquities.
Significance: Shows that sin forces God into a servile position, a profound vertical consequence.
Oh, that there were such an heart in them that they would fear Me, and keep all My commandments always, that it might be well with them and with their children forever.
Significance: Reveals God's deep desire for His people's obedience and well-being.
Open thy mouth wide, and I will fill it.
Significance: A vivid promise of God's provision if His people would only obey and trust Him.
My little children, these things I write on you that you sin not.
Significance: Used to encourage believers to make it their aim not to sin, as a response to God's heart.
Discussion Questions
In what ways have you focused more on your own hurt from sin's consequences rather than on how your sin affects God?
Context: Weaver challenges the congregation to consider their self-centeredness in grief.
How does understanding sin as spiritual adultery change your view of temptation and disobedience?
Context: The sermon likens sin to declaring God insufficient, which is a form of adultery.
What does it mean practically to 'open your mouth wide' and let God fill it, as in Psalm 81:10?
Context: Weaver uses the image of baby birds to illustrate dependence on God for provision.
Why do you think many Christians act as deists, ignoring God's active involvement and emotional response to sin?
Context: Weaver critiques the passive view of God common among believers.
How can we cultivate a daily prayer life that asks God to restrain us from sinning against Him?
Context: The application encourages regular prayer for help in avoiding sin.
Applications
Consider the Vertical Effect of Your Sin
Summary: Before sinning, reflect on how your actions grieve and break the heart of God, not just how they affect others or yourself.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'the next time you're tempted to violate the law of God, before you act, before you sin, think and reflect upon the implication of your sin upon the Lord Jesus Christ and upon our Heavenly Father.'
Pray Daily for Restraint from Sin
Summary: Make it a daily practice to ask God to help you not sin against Him, recognizing your dependence on His grace.
Evidence: Weaver asks, 'How often have you asked the Lord Jesus Christ to restrain you from sinning against him? That should be a daily prayer.'
Seek a Heart That Fears God
Summary: Desire and pray for a heart that fears God and keeps His commandments, as God Himself desires for His people.
Evidence: Weaver references Deuteronomy 5:29 and urges, 'Lord, give me such a heart as that. Work in my life so that I will not break your heart.'
Recognize the Foolishness of Sin
Summary: Understand that sin is a bad bargain, trading lasting blessing for temporary pleasure, and let that knowledge deter you.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'it is absolute stupidity to trade a lifetime for a few minutes of unlawful pleasure.'
Shift Focus from Self to God
Summary: Instead of being consumed with your own grief and happiness, be concerned with what pleases God and brings Him joy.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'We're not concerned about what pleases God, what makes Him happy, what gives Him joy. No, no, no. We're concerned with ourselves.'
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