The Sin of Evil Speaking
John Weaver | YouTube
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| Speaker | John Weaver |
| Source | YouTube |
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| Subject | Old Testament Studies |
| Course | Proverbs: The Fear of the Lord and Wisdom: Can We All Just Get Along? |
| Genre | Sermon |
| Date | 2018-10-02 |
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| Book | Book 081: Proverbs: The Fear of the Lord and Wisdom - Volume 1 — Chapter 23 |
| Source Timed Segments | 72 |
Synopsis: Pastor John Weaver expounds James 4:11-12, defining evil speaking as backbiting, slander, and derogatory remarks that not only harm brethren but also constitute blasphemy by judging God's law and usurping His role as the sole Lawgiver and Judge. He traces the sin's roots to hellish wisdom (James 3) and contrasts it with heavenly wisdom. Through historical commentary and Scripture, he shows that evil speaking elevates oneself above God's law, and he urges believers to guard their tongues, avoid unnecessary repetition of truths, and trust God for vindication.
Formatted Transcript
Introduction and Context
Weaver introduces James 4:11-12, noting the gravity of evil speaking as a sin often overlooked, and sets the stage by reviewing James 3 on the tongue's destructive power.
Chapter 4, James 4, verses 11 and 12. James 4, verses 11 and 12. The title of the message is "The Sin of Evil Speaking." The sin of evil speaking. Notice James 4, verse 11. The Scripture says,
"Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law. But if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge. There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who art thou that judgest another?"
Originally I thought of titling this message "Christian Sins," but then I realized that I could not cover all the sins of Christians in a single message. I also thought of titling this message "The Primary Sin of Preachers," since preachers are often times guilty of the sin of evil speaking. But the truth of the matter is, the sin of evil speaking is a major sin, and it's not just preachers and teachers that commit this sin, but Christians in general as well.
The Duty Enjoined: Speak Not Evil
The command 'Speak not evil one of another, brethren' is a present active imperative, making its violation a sin. Old Testament parallels (Psalm 34:13) and Proverbs reinforce the need to guard the tongue.
Now what I want to do is this. Verses 11 and 12, of course, come right down, and of course in between the Bible is talking about how God resisteth the proud, but He giveth grace unto the humble. And then of course He tells you in verse 10, "Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He shall lift you up." And one of the ways we humble ourselves is by not speaking evil of each other. So actually there are three things I want you to see today. First of all, I want you to see the duty enjoined. Notice verse 11. He says, "Speak not evil one of another, brethren." So we're commanded in James 4:11 not to speak evil one of another. It is a command. It is a present active imperative in the Greek. Which means it is a command; therefore it is a sin to violate this biblical command. Speak not evil one of another. Now you have to ask yourself this question: Is this a new command? And the answer is no. I want you to turn in your Bibles to Psalm 34 and look at verse 13. Psalm 34, verse 13. You're going to see that this passage teaches basically the same truth that James 4:11 teaches.
In Psalm 34, verse 13, the Bible says this: "Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile." Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile. Now the Hebrew word for "evil" means that which is bad, evil, malignant, wicked, displeasing, grievous, and noisome. Then in verse 13 he says, "Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking guile." The Hebrew word for "guile" is mirmah, and it refers to that which is deceitful, crafty, feigned, subtle, and treacherous. And so basically what James is telling us and setting us up for is James chapter 3, that the tongue is a fatal evil and it's full of deadly poison and it kindles a great fire. If we restrain our tongues, we would save ourselves an awful lot of heartache and an awful lot of remorse. I can assure you that everyone in this room,
every Christian, if they were honest, would confess and say that they wished a thousand times that they had never said some things that they had said. And if they could take it back, they would take it back. But it's impossible. There are two proverbs that very clearly demonstrate this truth. The first one is Proverbs 13, verse 3. Listen to this one:
"He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction."
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life, but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction. And then Proverbs 21, verse 23, one of my favorite verses, the Bible says, "Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles." So God said if you can keep your mouth and keep your tongue, you can keep your soul from troubles. Now, I want you to look in James 4, verse 11. This is astounding. James 4, verse 11. He says, "Speak not evil one of another." What's the next word?
"Brethren." Brethren. Have you ever noticed how Christians attack each other and vilify each other, seek to ostracize, belittle, and destroy each other? And usually when they do so, it is for self-elevation or out of pure ignorance and arrogance. Now what I want to do today is this: I'm going to give you a number of quotes. And the reason I'm going to give you these quotes is for two reasons. Number one, I want you to see the historicity of the interpretation. In other words, the interpretation that I'm placing on James 4:11-12 is not something new. It's not something original. It is something that has been interpreted and understood for hundreds of years. Moreover, I want you to see the consistency of interpretations. So I'm going to begin by quoting Matthew Henry. Listen to what he says. He's talking about James 4, verse 11, "Speak not evil one of another, brethren." He says, "We are cautioned against the sin of evil speaking. Speak not evil one of another, brethren. The Greek word signifies speaking anything that may hurt or injure another.
The Duty Explained: Evil Speaking Judges the Law
When we speak evil of a brother, we set ourselves as judges, condemning God's law as insufficient and exalting our own opinions above His commands.
Secondly, I want you to see with me the duty explained. So, if you go back to James 4 and look at verse 11, we're going to come up with the second point, the duty explained. Here's the duty enjoined: "Speak not evil one of another, brethren." Now, he explains it. He says, "He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge." Now we have a duty, we have an obligation, we have a responsibility not to speak evil concerning our brethren. When we do speak evil concerning them, we sin against God. How do we sin against God? And the answer is we become judge, jury, and executioner. We usurp the authority of God and speak evil of the law. So the attitude then of the one who speaks evil is that the law is insufficient, and that it does not provide enough condemnation, and therefore we're going to remedy the situation in our own way.
The Duty Enlarged: Usurping God's Prerogative
There is one Lawgiver and Judge who can save and destroy. Evil speaking blasphemously steals God's exclusive right to judge, making the speaker a 'pope in his own cause.'
That's like me saying, if I jumped on Gary and Gary said, "Wait a minute, I haven't violated the law. I haven't broken God's commandments." And I said, "Well, there ought to be a commandment like that." Really? Who am I to say something like that? And in other words, I would be saying that God's law is insufficient, that God's law is not full and complete. So let me explain this very simply. When we speak evil of our brethren, we are elevating ourselves to the position of judges, and in elevating ourselves to the position of judges, we're denying that we have an obligation ourselves to obey the law. And in essence, we are condemning the law as being ineffectual or insufficient, and that what this person needs is our judgment and our censorious attitude. And at the same time, I'm going to show you, it's usurping the power and position of God. So let's go back to James chapter 4.
I want you to see this. I want you to listen carefully, because this is to me a very powerful passage, and it exposes a lot. If you would just stop and think of all the controversies in Christendom and all the controversies between brethren—and they happen all the time. Look in verse 11: "Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge."
Now note what he says: "There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?" So we've seen the duty enjoined: speak not evil. We've seen the duty explained: because when we do speak evil, we become a judge and we condemn God's law. And now we should see the duty enlarged, because He teaches us in verse 12, "There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy." So when we set up ourselves as judge, we are usurping the power, position, and prerogative of God. Just as vengeance belongs to God, so does judgment. God is our judge. He is our lawgiver. He is our King. I hope you remember that passage in Isaiah 33:22, where the Bible says,
"For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; he will save us."
When you stop and contemplate that there is one lawgiver who is able to save and destroy, how solemn is this to the conscience? One lawgiver and one judge that is able to save and destroy.
Historical Consistency of Interpretation
Quotes from Matthew Henry, John Calvin, John Gill, Adam Clarke, and others demonstrate that this understanding of James 4:11-12 has been held for centuries.
We must not speak evil things of others, though they be true, unless we be called to it and there be some necessary occasion for it. Much less should we report evil things when they are false, or for aught we know they may be so. Our lips must be guided by the law of kindness as well as truth and justice. This, which Solomon makes a necessary part of the character of a virtuous woman, that she openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness, must needs be a part of the character of every true Christian. Speak not evil one of another, brethren. Since Christians are brethren, they should not defile or defame one another. It is required of us that we be tender of the good name of our brethren. Where we cannot speak well, we had better say nothing than to speak evil. We must not take pleasure in making known the faults of others, divulging things that are secret merely to expose them, nor in making more of their known faults than they really deserve, and least of all in making false stories and spreading things concerning them of which they are altogether innocent.
Practical Applications
Weaver applies the text: do not repeat everything true; distinguish evil speaking from biblical confrontation; do not retaliate; and remember God's reciprocal judgment (Matthew 7:1-2).
Now let me make some applications and try to tie it together. Here we go. First of all, simply because we know something to be true does not mean that we should repeat it. I've talked to people over the years. I know a lot of secrets. I've had people confide in me, and I've kept those secrets. I know some things that are true about a lot of people, but I don't go telling them around. I don't go spreading them. Years ago,
I had a good friend who had a problem, and he came to me, and he explained his problem. And I gave him some biblical counsel. A few weeks later, he and his family were at our house for supper. I was outside. Alice was inside in the kitchen. And this man slipped up beside her and whispered, "I suppose your husband has told you all about my problem."
Study Guide
Major Themes
The Sin of Evil Speaking as Blasphemy
Summary: Evil speaking is not merely harmful speech but a form of blasphemy because it judges God's law and usurps His role as Judge.
Evidence: Weaver explains that the Greek word for 'evil speaking' in several NT passages is blasphemia, linking slander to impious speech against God.
The Tongue's Destructive Power
Summary: James 3 illustrates that the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity, set on fire by hell, and no man can tame it.
Evidence: Weaver reads James 3:2-12, emphasizing that the tongue defiles the whole body and is full of deadly poison.
Hellish vs. Heavenly Wisdom
Summary: The source of evil speaking is earthly, sensual, devilish wisdom, which produces strife; heavenly wisdom is pure, peaceable, and gentle.
Evidence: Weaver contrasts James 3:13-18, showing that bitter envying and strife come from hellish wisdom, while heavenly wisdom yields peace.
Usurping God's Role as Judge
Summary: When we speak evil, we set ourselves as judges, condemning the law and stealing the prerogative that belongs to God alone.
Evidence: Weaver cites James 4:12 and Romans 14:4, stressing that God is the one Lawgiver able to save and destroy.
The Necessity of Guarding the Tongue
Summary: Believers must pray for God to set a watch over their mouths, as keeping the tongue prevents many troubles.
Evidence: Weaver references Psalm 141:3 and Proverbs 21:23, urging self-restraint to avoid heartache and remorse.
Reciprocal Judgment
Summary: God will measure back to us the same harsh judgment we use against others, as taught in Matthew 7:1-2.
Evidence: Weaver warns that those who judge rashly will themselves be judged by the same standard.
Key Arguments
Evil speaking is a violation of God's command
Summary: James 4:11 is a present active imperative, making evil speaking a direct sin against God's explicit command.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'It is a command; therefore it is a sin to violate this biblical command.'
Evil speaking judges the law
Summary: When we speak evil, we imply that God's law is insufficient and set up our own standards as superior.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'We become judge, jury, and executioner. We usurp the authority of God and speak evil of the law.'
Evil speaking usurps God's sole prerogative to judge
Summary: Only God is the Lawgiver and Judge; when we judge others, we blasphemously take His place.
Evidence: Weaver quotes James 4:12 and says, 'When we set up ourselves as judge, we are usurping the power, position, and prerogative of God.'
Truth does not justify repetition
Summary: Just because something is true does not mean it should be repeated; talebearing is forbidden.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'Just because something is true does not mean that you have to repeat it.'
Evil speaking stems from hellish wisdom
Summary: The fights and strife among believers originate from earthly, sensual, devilish wisdom, not from God.
Evidence: Weaver explains James 3:15-16, 'This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.'
Retaliation is forbidden
Summary: Even when others speak evil of us, we must not respond in kind but trust God for vindication.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'Just because someone else violates the law of God and usurps the prerogative of God does not give you the right to do so.'
Scripture References
James 4:11-12
Context: The primary text: 'Speak not evil one of another, brethren...'
Psalm 141:3
Context: David's prayer for God to guard his mouth.
1 Peter 2:1
Context: Laying aside all evil speakings.
James 3:2-12
Context: The tongue's destructive power and untamable nature.
James 3:13-18
Context: Contrast between hellish and heavenly wisdom.
James 4:1-5
Context: Source of wars and fightings: lusts and worldliness.
Psalm 34:13
Context: Keep thy tongue from evil.
Proverbs 13:3
Context: He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life.
Proverbs 21:23
Context: Whoso keepeth his mouth and tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Ephesians 4:31
Context: Put away evil speaking.
1 Peter 4:4
Context: Unbelievers speak evil of believers.
2 Peter 2:10,12
Context: The wicked speak evil of dignities and things they understand not.
Jude 1:10
Context: These speak evil of those things which they know not.
Matthew 7:1-5
Context: Judge not, that ye be not judged; the mote and beam.
John 7:24
Context: Judge righteous judgment.
Matthew 23:1-7
Context: Scribes and Pharisees sit in Moses' seat, loving preeminence.
Romans 14:4
Context: Who art thou that judgest another man's servant?
Isaiah 33:22
Context: The Lord is our judge, lawgiver, and king.
Hebrews 10:30
Context: Vengeance belongeth unto me; the Lord shall judge his people.
Leviticus 19:16
Context: Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer.
Historical References
Matthew Henry
Context: Quoted on the sin of evil speaking, emphasizing that even true things should not be spoken without necessity.
John Calvin
Context: Quoted on hypocrisy and the disease of imposing our own rule of life on others, and on judging the law.
John Gill
Context: Quoted on how evil speaking judges the law by taking on the role of accuser and condemner.
Adam Clarke
Context: Quoted on how evil speaking condemns the law as imperfect and sets up one's own conduct as a rule.
Albert Barnes
Context: Quoted on the presumption of judging others and God's claim to judgment as His prerogative.
Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown
Context: Quoted on the emphatic Greek order 'But thou, who art thou?' highlighting arrogance in judging.
John Trapp
Context: Quoted on being a 'pope in thine own cause' by usurping God's place in judging.
Arthur W. Pink
Context: Referenced for the saying, 'One reason we don't like the Pope is because we want to be the Pope ourselves.'
Important Quotes
Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.
Significance: The foundational text of the sermon, establishing the command and its theological implications.
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me. However, that is untrue. The truth is, names do hurt, especially when those names are untrue or when others believe them, even when they are untrue.
Significance: Challenges the common saying to highlight the real damage of evil speaking.
Just because something is true does not mean that you have to repeat it.
Significance: A key practical principle against gossip and talebearing.
There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?
Significance: Climactic verse emphasizing God's sole authority to judge.
When we speak evil of our brethren, we are elevating ourselves to the position of judges, and in elevating ourselves to the position of judges, we're denying that we have an obligation ourselves to obey the law.
Significance: Summarizes the self-exalting nature of evil speaking.
Is it not this to be a pope in thine own cause, exalting myself above God, or at least appealing from Him to thyself?
Significance: John Trapp's vivid description of the blasphemous arrogance of judging others.
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
Significance: Proverbs 15:1 quoted to illustrate the power of gentle speech over retaliation.
Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Significance: Jesus' warning about reciprocal judgment, applied to the sin of evil speaking.
Discussion Questions
In what ways have you experienced or observed the truth that 'names do hurt' even when untrue?
Context: Weaver challenges the saying 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.'
How does understanding evil speaking as blasphemy change your view of gossip and slander?
Context: Weaver explains that the Greek word for evil speaking is blasphemia, linking it to impious speech against God.
Why is it so tempting to set ourselves up as judges over others, and how can we resist this?
Context: Weaver discusses the innate disease of wanting others to live by our own rules.
What practical steps can you take to 'keep the door of your lips' in daily conversations?
Context: Weaver references Psalm 141:3 and Proverbs about guarding the mouth.
How can we distinguish between biblical confrontation and sinful evil speaking?
Context: Weaver notes that there is a place for nouthetic admonishment but it must be within biblical parameters.
Have you ever been tempted to retaliate when someone spoke evil of you? How does Romans 12:19 and this sermon guide your response?
Context: Weaver advises not to retaliate but to trust God for vindication.
What does the 'mote and beam' illustration in Matthew 7 teach us about self-examination before judging others?
Context: Weaver connects Matthew 7:1-5 to the sin of evil speaking.
How does the reality that God will measure our judgment back to us affect your speech and attitudes?
Context: Weaver warns of the law of sowing and reaping in judgment.
Applications
Guard your speech
Summary: Pray for God to set a watch over your mouth and refrain from speaking evil of others.
Evidence: Weaver urges, 'Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.'
Do not repeat everything true
Summary: Just because something is true does not mean it should be shared; avoid talebearing.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'Just because something is true does not mean that you have to repeat it.'
Distinguish evil speaking from biblical confrontation
Summary: Confront sin biblically but do not use it as a cover for evil speaking or personal judgment.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'Evil speaking is something totally different from biblical confrontation.'
Do not retaliate
Summary: When others speak evil of you, trust God for vindication rather than responding in kind.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'Just because someone else violates the law of God... does not give you the right to do so.'
Remember God's reciprocal judgment
Summary: Be mindful that the measure you use to judge others will be used on you.
Evidence: Weaver warns, 'Sooner or later, someone will speak evil of us.'
Humble yourself before God
Summary: Humbling ourselves includes refraining from evil speaking, as James 4:10 leads into verse 11.
Evidence: Weaver notes, 'One of the ways we humble ourselves is by not speaking evil of each other.'
Examine your own heart first
Summary: Before judging others, deal with your own sins, as taught in Matthew 7:3-5.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'We should be dealing with ourselves first, judging and confessing our own sins.'
Use soft answers
Summary: Respond to wrath with gentleness to de-escalate conflict, following Proverbs 15:1.
Evidence: Weaver shares the story of Barbara who spoke softly to irate parents.
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