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Walking With The Lord - Part 4

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SpeakerJohn Weaver
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SubjectOld Testament Studies
CourseProverbs: Kingship, Household Wisdom, and Warning
GenreSermon
Date2016-03-08
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BookBook 094: Walking With The Lord — Chapter 4
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Synopsis: In this sermon, Pastor John Weaver continues his series on walking with the Lord by focusing on the second aspect of walking worthy of our calling: meekness. He clarifies that biblical meekness is not weakness, cowardice, or passivity, but rather disciplined strength under the authority of Jesus Christ. Using examples from Moses and Christ, he demonstrates that meekness involves a disposition that is not easily provoked, is gentle, and enables believers to restore fallen brethren without pride. Meekness is a fruit of the Spirit, essential for being taught and led by God, and is to be actively sought and cultivated in the Christian life.


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Introduction and Review

Weaver reviews the series on walking with the Lord, emphasizing that walking implies communion, agreement, purpose, progress, and resolution. He recaps the need to walk before the Lord and the foundational role of faith, as well as the first aspect of walking worthy: lowliness (humility).

All right, let's open our Bibles today again to the book of Ephesians chapter 4. Ephesians chapter 4. I am going to continue here on walking with the Lord, which will be the fourth part of—I don't always preach the same thing here that I preach in Waycross, but during this particular series I am. So I told Frank that they would get the benefit of hearing the same message twice. And anybody from Pennsylvania, New Jersey area, he said needed to hear it twice.

New Yorkers, they need to hear it three or four times. Oh Lord have mercy. We were told today about some family that sold out in South Carolina and moved back to Chicago, Illinois. I said, that's like jumping out of the frying pan into the fire. Are they still alive? Yeah, that's a fact. Ephesians chapter 4 if you would,

Scripture Reading — Ephesians 4:1-7
"I therefore the prisoner of the Lord beseech you that you walk worthy of the vocation wherewith you are called, with all lowliness and meekness, with long-suffering, forbearing one another in love; endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body, and one Spirit, even as you are called in one hope of your calling; one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all. But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ."

I want to take just a few minutes and try to review. I've just pointed out walking with the Lord. In the first message I pointed out that we must walk before the Lord in order to walk with the Lord. We studied how Enoch walked with the Lord. And when God said to Abram, "Walk thou before me, and be thou perfect," it simply meant that we were to walk in His presence as we were in His face, or He was in our presence. You can't walk with Him unless you are simply walking before Him as well. And then I pointed out at least five implications of the word walk. In fact through the Bible the word walk actually is synonymous with a Christian life, and with a Christian journey, and with the conduct of our daily lives. So I pointed out how that a walk implies, first of all, communion and fellowship.

Secondly, it would imply agreement. Can two walk together except they be agreed? Thirdly, it would imply purpose. You're walking with a purpose. Fourthly, of course, it would also imply progress. You're moving from one spot to the other spot, like going from faith to faith. And then, of course, fifthly, implies of course resolution as well. You are actually trying to work out problems and bring your life into greater conformity to the Word of God. And then we looked at Hebrews 11 verses 5 and 6 still in relationship to Enoch. The Bible says, "By faith Enoch was translated that he should not see death, for before his translation he had this testimony that he pleased God." Then verse 6 says, "But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he that cometh to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him."

So walking by faith is absolutely fundamental, it is foundational, it is basic, and until we learn to do that we cannot do anything else. And I pointed out from Hebrews 11 and verse 6 how walking by faith has reference to God's person, to God's promises, and then to God's providence. And then last week I pointed out from Ephesians 4 verse 1 where the Apostle Paul tells us that we are to walk worthy of the vocation wherewith we have been called. And I took you through the Bible and showed you ten places where the word vocation is translated as called. And the word vocation actually refers to our salvation. When He says that we are to walk worthy of the vocation where we have been called we are to walk worthy of our salvation because we have been called unto the fellowship of His dear Son the Lord Jesus Christ according to Romans chapter 1 and verse 6. So it does indeed refer to our salvation. Then I kind of compared Ephesians 4:1 with Colossians 1 and verse 10 where Paul prayed then that we might walk worthy unto all pleasing.

And so as long as we're walking worthy we're walking pleasing unto the Lord. And then we looked at how to walk worthily in verse 2 and the very first thing that we read he said "with all lowliness." I pointed out that lowliness is a compound word which means humility, or having a humble opinion of oneself, modesty, a deep sense of one's smallness, humility, and lowliness of mind. And so I've pointed out how lowliness is actually the opposite of pride and arrogance and haughtiness, as well as a spirit of domination, lordship, and manipulation. So if we desire to maintain a lowly attitude according to Scripture as God commands us, we must be constantly considering what we were and are by nature. We must also consider the fact that we are depraved, desperately depraved by nature. And then we looked at Ephesians 2 verses 1-3 where the Apostle Paul told us what we were before God saved us. And then of course we looked at Isaiah 51 and verse 1 where he said, "Hearken unto me, ye that follow after righteousness, ye that seek the Lord: look unto the rock whence you were hewn, and to the pit from which you are digged." So he says you better remember where you came from and what you were. So if you ask, how can we maintain a lowly attitude and

Meekness Is Not Weakness

Weaver challenges the common misconception that meekness equals weakness, cowardice, or being a pushover. He uses Moses, the meekest man on earth, who killed an Egyptian, confronted Pharaoh, and pronounced judgments, to show that meekness is compatible with strength and boldness.

We think of a milksop, one that refuses to stand up for himself or his rights, one who refuses to stand up for anyone else, one who is easily run over and easily manipulated. Well obviously biblical meekness does not relate to such a twisted, unmanly, unbiblical, and ungodly description. Our Lord was meek. He claimed meekness as an attitude. We'll look at this a little bit later but in Matthew 11 and verse 29 he said this,

Scripture Reading — Matthew 11:29
"Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you shall find rest for your souls."

And then of course in Matthew 21 and verse 5 which was prophesied by Zechariah. In Matthew 21 verse 5 he says, "Tell you the daughter of Zion, Behold, thy King cometh unto thee, meek, and sitting upon an ass, and a colt the foal of an ass." So there was none so meek and holy as the Lord Jesus Christ. There were none so mild as the Lord Jesus Christ.

And yet the Bible tells us in John chapter 2 that our meek Lord took a scourge of small cords and drove the money changers from the Temple as He turned over their tables. Now I want you to stop and think about that. Our Lord took a scourge of small cords. Now, a scourge would usually be a piece of wood that you hold in your hand. And small cords would just be pieces of leather coming out of it. Sometimes it would have something like a bead or something on the end that would make it sting a little bit more. But when you think about meekness, here's the question. Who's going to run from a 90-pound weakling even if he has a scourge of small cords in his hand?

And the answer is no one. You have to understand that our Lord was raised in a carpentry shop. You don't get weak by working in carpentry. So when our Lord took that scourge of small cords, He not only had some determination behind Him, He also had some muscle behind Him. So our Lord basically was indeed a man's man. So when we talk about meekness, we find out that our Lord was meek and claimed meekness as an attribute. What in the world is the use of a Christian profession that leaves us without the taking on of the character of Christ? In other words, we are to be conformed to His image. We're to be made more and more like to Jesus Christ.

Now, if you would turn back just a few pages to 2 Corinthians chapter 10, you'll see how the Apostle Paul uses the meekness and the mildness of Christ as an encouragement. He says this in 2 Corinthians 10 and verse 1,

Scripture Reading — 2 Corinthians 10:1
"Now I, Paul, myself, beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold toward you."

So he says,

Scripture Reading — 2 Corinthians 10:1
"I am beseeching you by the meekness and by the gentleness of Christ."

Now the point I really want to emphasize is this, do not equate meekness with weakness. Do not equate meekness with being a coward. Do not equate meekness with someone who refuses to stand for that which is right. Back in his day Moses was called the meekest man on the earth. In Numbers 12 and verse 3 the Bible says, "Now the man Moses was very meek above all the men which were upon the face of the earth." So Moses in his day was the meekest man upon the earth. And yet it was Moses, the meekest man on earth, who killed an Egyptian while defending his brother. It was Moses, the meekest man on the earth, who faced Pharaoh and his magicians and his power elite of that day and stood them down. It was Moses, the meekest man on the earth, who pronounced all the plagues against Egypt and upon Pharaoh as well. It was Moses, the meekest man on the earth, who pronounced the death sentence upon Pharaoh as well. It was Moses, the meekest man on the earth, who knelt down and asked God to open up the earth, let a new thing happen, and let Dathan and Abiram and Korah go down alive into the pit.

It was Moses, the meekest man on earth, who put up with the irritated and rebellious Israelites for 40 years in the wilderness. Moses may have been meek, but he was certainly not weak. And he was certainly not a pushover by any stretch of the imagination. So meekness then is not meanness. It is not weakness. It is not a surrender of our rights. It is not being a coward.

Defining Biblical Meekness

Meekness (Greek praotēs) is defined as a disposition of the soul that is not easily provoked, avoids unnecessary provocation of others, and enables gentle responses when rebuked. It is the opposite of pride, irritability, and vengefulness.

Well, if it's none of those, what is it? Well, in Ephesians 4 and verse 2, he says, "with all lowliness and meekness." The Greek word for meekness, praotēs, literally is translated as meekness, but it also means gentleness as well. So let me begin by telling you what meekness really is. Meekness is that disposition of the soul that makes men unwilling to unnecessarily provoke other people. Meekness is that disposition of soul which is not easily provoked when others rebuke us for our sins or our wrongs or our weaknesses or our inabilities. Meekness is that disposition which is opposed to being angrily resentful and what you and I would just simply call peevishness. So it is meekness then that keeps us from having an irritable disposition and attitude. It is meekness that keeps us from being angry when other individuals point out our sins and our weaknesses. And it is meekness that enables us to hold our tongues and to keep our words in our mouth when we are provoked.

Now, I know that there is a time to speak out. I understand that. But everyone in this room would confess and acknowledge there are many times in anger you said things that you wish you had never said. And that's what meekness does. The Bible says in Proverbs 13 verse 10,

Scripture Reading — Proverbs 13:10
"Only by pride cometh contention."

Only by pride cometh contention. So if Steve then rebukes me or if Steve points out something to me in some area where I'm weak, in some area where I need to strengthen myself, it's only pride that would say something like, "Ha, ha, better check yourself buddy." No, I would say, "Thank you. I will work on that area. I needed that." That's meekness. John Gill said it like this.

Meekness as a Fruit of the Spirit

Meekness is not natural to fallen humanity but is produced by the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). It allows believers to rejoice in the gifts of others without envy, recognizing God's sovereignty in dispensing gifts.

It is indeed a fruit of the Spirit. It is not something that is produced in us by nature. In Galatians 5 and verse 22 he says this,

Scripture Reading — Galatians 5:22-23
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law."

But notice if you would the fruit of the Spirit and then in verse 23 is meekness. Now the interesting thing is this, biblical meekness will allow us to rejoice over the blessings and the gifts of God in the lives of other people. Not all of us have the same gifts. Not all of us have the same intellect. Not all of us have the same abilities. I used to get angry, not really and truly, but I used to point out about Melvin Stringer. I'd say, "Melvin, you make me so angry."

Because if his car needed work, he'd do it. If he needed to build a house, he'd build a house. If he needed to do plumbing, he could do plumbing. If he wanted to do electrical wiring, he could do it. He could do anything he wanted to do. And I would say, "But I can't do any of those things." And I have had several friends during my lifetime that just whatever needed to be done, they could do it. And you look at people like that and you think, my goodness, I mean look at the preachers for instance that not only can preach and teach but they have beautiful voices and a full head of hair to boot. I mean you know look at that. I'm just simply saying you can look at the gifts and the abilities that God has given other people and rejoice in that and say, "Well, I'm thankful that God at least gave him that gift. I'm thankful that God gave him that ability," because we have to understand that God is absolutely sovereign when He dispenses our gifts. We don't necessarily get to choose our gifts. It's just very simple. God is free to give one gift to one man and a different gift to another man and God is absolutely free to withhold any or all of His gifts if He so chooses. That's why the Bible says in

Scripture Reading — James 1:17
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning."

And the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 12 and verse 11, talking about gifts, "But all these worketh that one and the selfsame Spirit," the Holy Spirit is God, listen, "dividing severally to every man as he wills." So who determines what gifts we get? It's just that simple. I don't guess I ever asked for the gift of preaching and teaching, for that's what I ended up with. I'm just simply pointing out the fact God can give and God cannot give. It's just like I have known men with earned PhDs.

Meekness in Restoring the Fallen

Using Galatians 6:1-5 and Job 16, Weaver teaches that meekness is essential for restoring fallen brethren. It prevents a haughty, judgmental attitude and reminds us that we too are susceptible to temptation.

Because only as we minister to each other are we ministering to Him. Now, let me show you. I want you to turn in your Bibles to two passages. I want you to turn to Galatians chapter 6 and to Job chapter 16. Galatians chapter 6 and just hold that and then go back in your Bibles to Job chapter 16. Everyone knows the story of Job. In fact James says you've heard of the patience of Job and that is true but you know even Job got a little irritated at some of his friends because his friends were saying things that certainly did not apply to Job. Now I want you to think about this. There are a number of things that those three men said to Job that were absolutely true. But the problem was what they said did not apply to Job. Job was totally and completely innocent and they assumed that he had sinned and that's why God was judging him. And he says, "No, that's not the case." Now, look what Job said.

And let me point this out. Listen carefully before I tell you. I'll read the scripture here. It's only as we have meekness in our lives that we're able to help falling and fallen brethren. One of the reasons there's hardly any restoration of fallen brethren is because there is no real genuine meekness.

Now I understand and I know that often times a lot of individuals who quote unquote fall from the faith were never in the faith to begin with. They were never saved. John said it in 1 John 2 and verse 19, "They went out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not of us; for had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us." The proof that a person is ever really genuinely saved is that he continues. But there have been real genuine Christians who have fallen and who have sinned and done things they should have never ever done. Biblical meekness will keep us from having a high and mighty attitude and saying, "Look at him." It'll keep us from having that attitude, "I told you so." And it'll keep us from having the attitude, "If I'd been in your place, I'd have never done that." Really? I'm going to show you. I want you to look what Job said to his friends. You see folks, it's easy for you and I to condemn our brethren when we have not really walked in their shoes. I have a dear friend

who for years had made this statement. She says, "Christians are about the only group I've ever known that attack their own wounded." Kind of like a bunch of chickens. One chicken gets down and what do the others do? Rush to peck him to death and just attack him. Well, that's the truth. Well, that's the way it is unhappily. Look in Job chapter 16. Look what Job said to his three friends.

Scripture Reading — Job 16:1-4
"Then Job answered and said, I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are you all."

He said, "You're not telling me nothing that I don't already know. And you're just miserable. You're not helping me. You're hurting me." Watch,

Scripture Reading — Job 16:1-4
"Shall vain words have an end?"

Would you just shut up?

Scripture Reading — Job 16:1-4
"What emboldeneth thee that thou answerest?"

Why are you even speaking? You don't even know what you're talking about. Watch in verse 4 he says,

Scripture Reading — Job 16:1-4
"I also could speak as you do: if your soul were in my soul's stead, I could heap up words against you, and shake my head at you."

So if we traded places, obviously if I'm hurting, you're not. Oh, you can sit there very piously and say all kind of things about me. But if we traded places I could do the same thing against you. But that's not resolving anything. Now Job said, "No, that's not the answer." Look in your Bibles to the book of Galatians chapter 6 and verse 1. In fact, let's read through verse 5. Galatians 6 verses 1 through 5 he says, "Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault," that is, he sinned, he's fallen, "you which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted."

"Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. For if a man think himself to be something when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. But let every man prove his own work. Then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone and not in another. For every man shall bear his own burden." Now, I want you to watch this. If we have biblical meekness, first of all, it will enable us not to become an unnecessary burden upon others. That's what he meant in verse 5, "For every man shall bear his own burden." In other words, as much as humanly possible, we carry our own load. If we have problems, the very first thing we do is we go to our Heavenly Father.

Notice, if you would please, Galatians chapter 6. He also says in verse 2, "Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." So, if we're able to carry our own load, we may be able to help someone else carry their load as well. Now, I want you to note verse 1, meekness, meekness will enable us not to become haughty or take a haughty attitude, speak proudly and indicate that we would have never committed the sin for which we're seeking to help our fallen brethren. He said, "Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, you who are spiritual restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted." Now let me tell you. If Steve falls into a certain sin, I can't sit here and say, "Man, if I'd been there I wouldn't have done that." How do I know what I would have done? I haven't maybe been tempted like he's been tempted. If I take that kind of attitude I'm never ever going to be able to help him. What does the Bible say? "Considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted." In other words I'm flesh and blood just like he's flesh and blood.

We all have the same temptations. We all have the same problems. We all have the same flesh. We all have the same lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the pride of life. And what God is saying is if we are going to help each other and restore each other it has to be in the spirit of meekness, understanding it's only by the grace of God that we have not fallen ourselves. Okay, now let me show you something else. I want you to turn to

Meekness in Teaching and Being Taught

Meekness enables patient instruction of those who oppose themselves (2 Timothy 2:24-26) and is necessary for being taught and led by God (Psalm 25:9). A proud person cannot be taught, but the meek acknowledge their need for guidance.

2 Timothy, 2 Timothy chapter 2. This not only applies to preachers it also applies to teachers and also applies to parents who are trying to instruct and teach their children and or grandchildren. Look what he says, 2 Timothy chapter 2 verse 24, "And the servant of the Lord must not strive," that is he's not fighting, doesn't have a fighting attitude in this instance. "The servant of the Lord must not strive, but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; and that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will." Now, notice if you would in verse 25, so we are to have meekness, and "in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves." Well how do men oppose themselves? And the answer is by holding to error and refusing the truth.

Many in pride think that they know when in reality they do not know. It's kind of like that verse in Galatians 6 and verse 3 when the Word of God said, "For if a man think himself to be something when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself." Likewise, when a man thinks he knows something when he doesn't really know it, he's just deceiving himself. I could pretend to be an electronics expert. Frank knows better. I could pretend to be an expert in computer sciences. Again, Frank knows better. I can pretend to be all of those things, but I would just simply be deceiving myself. I could pretend that I was an excellent singer. I'm still deceiving myself. I am not. That's why the Bible tells us that every man is to consider and to deal with himself soberly in assessing the gifts that God has given him.

According to the Apostle Paul, meekness then will allow us not to become angry when people do not immediately receive the truth. Listen, I have preached to people all my life. Some it has taken a long time for God to open their eyes. Some eyes are open right away. One of my favorite illustrations is about an older brother who's been dead many years now. He was in our church, and I had John Reisinger come, and he spent a week on the biblical doctrine of election. When he got through, old brother Coulter came up to me just all excited.

He said, "Pastor, this is absolutely wonderful. This is absolutely great." He said, "My question is, why haven't you been preaching this?" I looked at him and I said, "My question is, where have you been for the last 15 years?" You know? God just turned the lights on for him at that particular time. So we can't get angry. We cannot get upset. We can't denounce them and reproach them as heretics and hold them up to scorn just simply because they do not know. The grand difficulty in all of this is they're ignorant of the truth. How many of you embraced truth the very first time you ever heard it? First of all, you don't even remember the first time you ever heard it. Secondly, most of us never embraced it the very first time we ever heard it. I remember when I got Pink's book "The Sovereignty of God" and I read through that book and I had a pen in my hand and I read through that book the first time I put "no, no" and exclamation points and, well, the book was so compelling when I got through I turned around

read it a second time. And this time I'd mark out the "no" and I'd put a question mark, you know, "Well, let me consider that." Then when I read it the second time I was so convicted I turned around read it a third time then I marked out everything and my position was, "Why did I ever argue? It's nothing with Scripture to begin with." But it took me three times before I ever saw it. So this is what he's saying, "in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves."

So if they're ignorant of the truth, we teach them. If they get angry, we are not to get angry. If they oppose the truth, we just calmly and continually keep stating it to them. If they are slow to learn, we don't become impatient, we just continue to teach them. If they get angry and refuse the truth, we may pity them, but we certainly do not denounce them. And may I point this out, don't care what position you hold, if I were to come to you and make fun of your position and denounce it and mock it and hold you up to scorn and ridicule you, all it's going to do is drive you more tightly and deeper in the very position that you're holding. Whether it's accurate or not or whether it's true or not, it's immaterial. That's just human nature because human nature says, "I'll show you. You're not gonna teach me and you're not gonna make me move." So he says, "in meekness instructing those." So lowliness and meekness, listen carefully, lowliness and meekness are absolutely essential to being taught and being led. A strong-minded man who is proud

and arrogant and hardy cannot be taught and led. And the reason he cannot be taught and led is because he already thinks he knows it all. You've heard me say this before, most young people when they go to college do not go to learn, they go there to correct the teachers and show them how much they know. And unhappily, a lot of Christians are in church like that. But a man who thinks he knows it all, he refuses to listen. His mind is made up beforehand. God is not going to teach someone like that. God is not going to lead someone like that. The Bible says in Psalm 25 and verse 9, "The meek will He guide in judgment: and the meek will He teach His way." You know what a meek man is? A meek man is the man who will come up and says, "I was told to go to the Hilton Hotel.

I have no idea where it is. Can you help me? Can you give me directions? Will you show me?" Now Steve can show me where a post office is. That's a private joke. But you understand what I'm saying. A meek man is willing to say, "I don't know." And I told Alice the last time we were going somewhere, we couldn't find it. I said, "I'll stop. You just run in and ask him which way the business is where we're going or where the road is." And she would go in and ask. But I had to admit, I did not know where we were going. So, the Bible tells us in Jeremiah 10 and verse 23, listen to this, here is why a meek man can be led. Here is why a meek man can be taught. He believes the truth of Jeremiah 10:23 when Jeremiah said, "O Lord, I know that the way of man is not in himself: it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps." Man doesn't know which way he is going.

There are issues right now that I'm dealing with that I'm asking the Lord for wisdom and direction. I don't know what to do. I know the principles of Scripture and I know that He will lead me. I know that He will guide me, but I have to ask. I don't know. It may surprise you to learn that it's the meek whom our Lord saves and blesses. Let me show you.

The Yoke of Christ as an Illustration of Meekness

Weaver illustrates meekness using Matthew 11:28-30, comparing it to a young ox yoked with an experienced ox. The young ox walks alongside, bearing little burden, while the older ox does the work. Meekness is disciplined strength under Christ's authority, submitting to His control.

I don't know if you've ever considered a yoke or not, but a yoke is for discipline and training. Servants are said to be under the yoke in 1 Timothy chapter 6 and verse 1, and subjects are said to be under the yoke in 1 Kings 12 and verse 10. But when he says "take my yoke upon you" here's the picture of how an ox is trained to plow and to pull. Usually what they would do is they would take a young inexperienced ox and they would yoke him up. It was a double yoke. They would yoke him up with an older experienced ox. The interesting thing is this, when I just said that a yoke is for discipline and training. Most of you in here have seen General Forrest, a 3,000 pound bull I've got. Have you ever wondered the strength that's just in his neck? I told you about his father, General Beauregard, who just took his head and was rubbing his head on a thousand-pound harrow and just flipped it over like it was absolutely nothing.

Now, Forrest is generous and gracious and kind in that sense of the word. He allows me to pet him and love him, but I've never put a yoke on him. Never tried. I don't think I want to either. Not at this stage in life. But can you imagine what he could pull if you had a yoke on him? He could pull a car out of the bog. He could pull a tractor. He could pull logs. In fact, they use oxen to pull logs, to pull wagons, to do whatever. That yoke is for discipline and training.

And so what they would do is they would take this young inexperienced ox. They would yoke him up with this older, experienced ox. But the young ox, the yoke is very loose around his neck and shoulders. And it's very tight around the older, experienced ox. And all the young ox does, really and truly, is walk beside the older, experienced ox. And it looks as if that young ox is pulling and plowing, but he's not. All the burden is on the heavy, older ox. He's doing all the work. Okay? How can our Lord say, "For my yoke is easy"? Because He's already done all the work. He's already earned salvation. He's already earned a perfect righteousness. What He calls us to do is to yoke up with Him for discipline and training.

Our part is to submit, to be trained, and to be disciplined. We're to be His servants. We're to be His subjects. Let me put it to you like this, that meekness is nothing less than disciplined strength under the direction and the authority of Jesus Christ. We're to move at His command. Our lives are to be controlled by Him. Our attitudes are to be controlled by Him. In Him we live and move and have our being. He is to be our all in all. So if I become angry, it should be a righteous anger, not unrighteous anger, at His command and according to His Word. If I'm submissive, it should be a biblical submissiveness according to His Word and His direction. If I'm to defend, it should be at His direction and under His authority. In other words, if I'm yoked up with Him, I am under His control. I bear and wear His yoke. I'm under His command, I'm under His control. So the Apostle Paul says when we walk worthy of our calling, we're not only walking in lowliness, we're walking in meekness.

Applications and Conclusion

Weaver applies the message: meekness is perfectly modeled in Christ, brings joy, is commanded to be sought, and is disciplined strength under God. He previews the next message on long-suffering and forbearance.

It means that we're broken to yoke and we plow at His pleasure. Those of you who have horses, you ride them at your pleasure. We saw two horses pulling a wagon coming in. Those horses pulled that wagon at the pleasure of the owner. The owners are in control. And that is exactly what the Word of God is teaching us about biblical meekness. We are indeed to be under the control of Jesus Christ.

Let me make some applications very quickly. The first one is this. Meekness and lowliness are perfectly tempered in the Lord Jesus Christ. He is our life. He is our model. He is our example. We have to bear His yoke and plow the path that He plowed. The Bible says in 1 Peter 2 and verse 23, talking about Christ, "Who, when He was reviled, reviled not again; when He suffered, He threatened not; but committed Himself to Him that judgeth righteously." So there is the meekness of Jesus Christ. He was not vindictive. He was not hateful. He was not unkind.

He just did what pleased the Father. Secondly, according to the Bible lowliness and meekness bring joy into one's life. The Bible says in Psalm 22 and verse 26, "The meek shall eat and be satisfied: they shall praise the Lord that seek Him: your heart shall live forever." Then in Isaiah 29 and verse 19, "The meek also shall increase their joy in the Lord." So it's only biblical meekness then that gives us joy and satisfaction. Thirdly, let me point this out, that biblical meekness is an attribute that is not only produced by the Holy Spirit, but it is an attribute that we are commanded to seek. That is, we are to develop this in our lives. In Zephaniah 2, verse 3, the Bible says, "Seek ye the Lord, all you meek of the earth, which have wrought His judgment; seek righteousness, seek meekness." So God commands us to seek it. We are to bring our lives into conformity to His Word. Pointed out in 1 Peter chapter 5 when the Bible is talking about a beautiful wife, God says, "Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel." It's not all the ornaments. No, no, no. No, he goes on to say this in verse 3, "But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which in the sight of God is of great price." So it's not how beautiful the clothes, it's not how decked out you are in jewelry, it's not how beautiful your hair is, it's whether or not there's a meek and quiet spirit.

That is a great price in the sight of God. And then fourthly, let me just reemphasize that meekness is disciplined strength under Christ. Meekness is not weakness. It is not being a coward. It is not refusing to stand. Meekness means that you have been yoked up to Jesus Christ. You bear His yoke. You wear His yoke. You move at His command. He has absolute authority and control over your life. So Paul says, if we're going to walk worthy, if we're going to walk pleasing unto the Lord, the way to walk worthy of our calling is to walk in lowliness and in meekness. And then next week we're going to see, he tells us that we're to walk also in long-suffering and in forbearance. And then I'm going to tie these next verses together and show you how verses 4, 5, 6, and 7 all work together to illustrate what he said in verses 2 and 3. Meekness is disciplined strength under God. Let's pray. Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we again thank you for your infinite grace and mercy.

And we do ask of thee, Father, for biblical meekness in our lives. We pray that you would enable us to bear the yoke of Jesus Christ, move under His authority and under His command to do that which pleases Him and glorifies Him, for He is God of gods and King of kings and Lord of lords. And we give thee all the praise and the honor and the glory. In the name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.


Study Guide

Major Themes

Biblical Meekness Defined

Summary: Meekness is not weakness but a disposition of the soul that is gentle, not easily provoked, and avoids unnecessary conflict. It is disciplined strength under God's authority.

Evidence: Weaver states, 'Meekness is that disposition of the soul that makes men unwilling to unnecessarily provoke other people... opposed to being angrily resentful and what you and I would just simply call peevishness.'

Meekness as a Fruit of the Spirit

Summary: Meekness is not innate but is produced by the Holy Spirit in the believer's life, as listed in Galatians 5:22-23.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'It is indeed a fruit of the Spirit. It is not something that is produced in us by nature.'

Meekness in Restoring Others

Summary: Meekness is essential when restoring fallen believers, preventing pride and self-righteousness, and reminding us of our own vulnerability to temptation.

Evidence: Weaver explains Galatians 6:1, 'Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, you which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.'

Meekness and Teachability

Summary: Meekness is necessary for being taught and led by God; the proud cannot be taught, but the meek acknowledge their need for direction.

Evidence: Weaver cites Psalm 25:9, 'The meek will He guide in judgment: and the meek will He teach His way,' and Jeremiah 10:23.

Christ as the Model of Meekness

Summary: Jesus Christ perfectly exemplified meekness, being gentle yet bold when necessary, and believers are to be conformed to His image.

Evidence: Weaver references Matthew 11:29, 'I am meek and lowly in heart,' and John 2 where Jesus drove out money changers.

The Yoke of Christ

Summary: Meekness is illustrated by taking Christ's yoke, which is easy because He bears the burden; it represents disciplined submission to His authority.

Evidence: Weaver explains, 'Meekness is nothing less than disciplined strength under the direction and the authority of Jesus Christ.'

Key Arguments

Meekness is not weakness

Summary: Weaver argues that biblical meekness is often misunderstood as weakness, but Moses and Jesus demonstrate that meekness coexists with strength and boldness.

Evidence: He says, 'Moses may have been meek, but he was certainly not weak. And he was certainly not a pushover by any stretch of the imagination.'

Meekness is essential for restoring the fallen

Summary: Without meekness, believers cannot effectively restore those who have sinned; pride leads to condemnation rather than restoration.

Evidence: Weaver states, 'One of the reasons there's hardly any restoration of fallen brethren is because there is no real genuine meekness.'

Meekness enables patient instruction

Summary: Meekness allows teachers and preachers to instruct those who oppose truth without anger, trusting God to grant repentance.

Evidence: He cites 2 Timothy 2:25, 'in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance.'

Meekness is necessary for being taught by God

Summary: A proud person cannot be taught or led by God; only the meek acknowledge their ignorance and seek guidance.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'A strong-minded man who is proud and arrogant and hardy cannot be taught and led.'

Meekness is disciplined strength under Christ

Summary: Using the yoke illustration, Weaver argues that meekness is not passivity but active submission to Christ's control and direction.

Evidence: He concludes, 'Meekness means that you have been yoked up to Jesus Christ. You bear His yoke. You wear His yoke. You move at His command.'

Scripture References

Ephesians 4:1-7

Context: Weaver reads the passage as the foundation for walking worthy of the calling, including lowliness and meekness.

Hebrews 11:5-6

Context: Referenced in review of Enoch's walk and the necessity of faith to please God.

Ephesians 2:1-3

Context: Used to remind believers of their depraved nature before salvation, fostering lowliness.

Isaiah 51:1

Context: Cited to encourage remembering one's origins to maintain humility.

1 Timothy 1:15

Context: Paul's self-identification as chief of sinners illustrates lowliness.

Matthew 11:29

Context: Jesus claims meekness as an attribute, inviting believers to learn from Him.

Matthew 21:5

Context: Prophecy of Christ's meek entry into Jerusalem.

John 2

Context: Jesus driving out money changers demonstrates that meekness is compatible with righteous anger.

Numbers 12:3

Context: Moses is described as the meekest man on earth, yet he acted boldly.

Proverbs 13:10

Context: Only by pride comes contention, contrasting with meekness.

Titus 3:1-2

Context: Command to show all meekness to all men.

James 1:17

Context: Every good gift comes from God, who is sovereign in dispensing gifts.

1 Peter 4:10

Context: Every believer has a gift to minister to others.

Job 16:1-4

Context: Job rebukes his friends as miserable comforters, illustrating the need for meekness in helping others.

Galatians 6:1-5

Context: Restoration of the fallen must be done in a spirit of meekness, considering oneself.

Historical References

Moses

Context: Moses is described as the meekest man on earth (Numbers 12:3), yet he killed an Egyptian, confronted Pharaoh, and led Israel boldly.

John Gill

Context: Weaver quotes John Gill's description of humility and meekness in believers.

Melvin Stringer

Context: A personal friend of Weaver's who was skilled in many practical tasks, used to illustrate rejoicing in others' gifts.

John Reisinger

Context: A preacher who spent a week teaching on election at Weaver's church, leading to a member's delayed understanding.

Arthur Pink's 'The Sovereignty of God'

Context: Weaver recounts his own slow acceptance of the doctrines of grace after reading Pink's book multiple times.

General Forrest (bull)

Context: Weaver's 3,000-pound bull used to illustrate the strength of an ox under yoke.

Important Quotes

Meekness is that disposition of the soul that makes men unwilling to unnecessarily provoke other people.

Significance: Provides a clear, positive definition of biblical meekness, distinguishing it from common misconceptions.

Moses may have been meek, but he was certainly not weak. And he was certainly not a pushover by any stretch of the imagination.

Significance: Uses Moses as a powerful example to dismantle the false equation of meekness with weakness.

One of the reasons there's hardly any restoration of fallen brethren is because there is no real genuine meekness.

Significance: Highlights the practical necessity of meekness in the church's ministry of restoration.

Meekness is nothing less than disciplined strength under the direction and the authority of Jesus Christ.

Significance: Summarizes the sermon's central thesis, defining meekness as active submission to Christ's lordship.

The meek will He guide in judgment: and the meek will He teach His way.

Significance: Scripture quotation emphasizing that meekness is a prerequisite for divine guidance and instruction.

Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you shall find rest unto your souls.

Significance: Christ's own words that form the basis for the yoke illustration and the call to meekness.

Discussion Questions

How does the world's definition of meekness differ from the biblical definition presented in this sermon?

Context: Weaver contrasts cultural views of meekness as weakness with the biblical view of disciplined strength.

In what ways did Moses demonstrate that meekness is compatible with boldness and strength?

Context: Weaver lists Moses' actions, including killing an Egyptian and confronting Pharaoh, to illustrate this point.

Why is meekness essential for restoring a fallen brother or sister in Christ?

Context: Based on Galatians 6:1, Weaver explains that without meekness, we risk pride and fail to help.

How does the yoke illustration from Matthew 11:28-30 help us understand what it means to be meek?

Context: Weaver uses the image of a young ox yoked with an experienced ox to explain submission to Christ.

What are some practical ways we can 'seek meekness' as commanded in Zephaniah 2:3?

Context: Weaver mentions that meekness is both a fruit of the Spirit and something we are commanded to pursue.

How does pride hinder our ability to be taught and led by God, according to this message?

Context: Weaver states that a proud person cannot be taught, referencing Psalm 25:9 and Jeremiah 10:23.

Applications

Cultivate a meek disposition

Summary: Believers are commanded to seek and develop meekness, which involves not being easily provoked and responding gently when corrected.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'Seek righteousness, seek meekness' (Zephaniah 2:3) and explains that meekness keeps us from irritable reactions.

Restore the fallen with meekness

Summary: When helping a brother overtaken in a fault, approach with humility, remembering your own vulnerability to temptation.

Evidence: Weaver expounds Galatians 6:1, 'restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.'

Submit to Christ's yoke

Summary: Accept Christ's authority and discipline in your life, moving at His command and trusting that His burden is light.

Evidence: Weaver explains, 'Meekness means that you have been yoked up to Jesus Christ... You move at His command.'

Rejoice in others' gifts without envy

Summary: Recognize that God sovereignly distributes gifts, and meekness enables us to celebrate others' abilities rather than resent them.

Evidence: Weaver says, 'Biblical meekness will allow us to rejoice over the blessings and the gifts of God in the lives of other people.'

Instruct opponents with patience

Summary: When teaching those who resist truth, do so with gentleness and patience, trusting God to grant repentance.

Evidence: Weaver cites 2 Timothy 2:25, 'in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves.'

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