The Angel of Marye's Heights
John Weaver | SermonAudio
| Lecture Metadata | Details |
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| Speaker | John Weaver |
| Source | SermonAudio |
| Media ID | 170411939 |
| Subject | New Testament Studies |
| Course | Romans: Christian Duty, Authority, and Brotherly Peace |
| Genre | Sermon |
| Date | 2004-01-04 |
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| Book | Book 133: Romans: Christian Duty, Authority, and Brotherly Peace — Chapter 1 |
| Source Timed Segments | 60 |
Synopsis: John Weaver uses the story of Confederate Sergeant Richard Kirkland, who risked his life to give water to wounded Union soldiers at the Battle of Fredericksburg, to illustrate the biblical command to love one's enemies. He explains that biblical love is not sentimentality but obedience to God's commandments, and that loving enemies means acting righteously toward them without vindictiveness, as taught in Matthew 5:43-44 and Romans 12:19-21.
Formatted Transcript
Introduction to the Message
Weaver introduces the unusual message titled 'The Angel of Marye's Heights' and explains he will use a true story to illustrate scriptural truths.
I'm going to be bringing an unusual message today in the sense that it's not my standard expository message, but I trust it's one that will not only be beneficial and a blessing to you, but one that will be an encouragement as well. Now listen carefully to the title of the message, and then I hope it will pique your curiosity. The title of the message is "The Angel of Marye's Heights." Now, you say, "I have no earthly idea what you're talking about." Well, let me just give you a little background. After I give you a number of scriptures today, I'm going to give you a true story that will illustrate the scriptures. And I have known about this story for a good while. And some time ago, I got a new book of just individual stories that happened, and I was rereading that book, and although I had read this story of the angel of Marye's Heights previously, there was one little fact that I had overlooked, and it stuck out in my mind, and it impressed me so, I wanted to use that as an illustration for this truth.
So, look in Matthew chapter 5, and let's read verses 43 and 44. Matthew 5, verse 43. Our Lord said,
"You have heard that it has been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy.' But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you."
Now look back, if you would please, in verse 43. He said,
"You have heard that it has been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy.'"
Now verse 44,
"But I say unto you, Love your enemies."
Those are amazing words, "love your enemies." Immediately when we read those words, we have to ask ourselves, what in the world does it mean to love our enemies?
The Command to Love Your Enemies
Reading Matthew 5:43-44, Weaver poses the question of what it means to love one's enemies, noting it cannot mean warm feelings toward those who seek to harm us.
Now, you say, "I have no earthly idea what you're talking about." Well, let me just give you a little background. After I give you a number of scriptures today, I'm going to give you a true story that will illustrate the scriptures. And I have known about this story for a good while. And some time ago, I got a new book of just individual stories that happened, and I was rereading that book, and although I had read this story of the angel of Marye's Heights previously, there was one little fact that I had overlooked, and it stuck out in my mind, and it impressed me so, I wanted to use that as an illustration for this truth.
So, look in Matthew chapter 5, and let's read verses 43 and 44. Matthew 5, verse 43. Our Lord said,
"You have heard that it has been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy.' But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you."
Now look back, if you would please, in verse 43. He said,
"You have heard that it has been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy.'"
Now verse 44,
"But I say unto you, Love your enemies."
Those are amazing words, "love your enemies." Immediately when we read those words, we have to ask ourselves, what in the world does it mean to love our enemies? Well, very obviously, it does not mean that we'd have warm, fuzzy feelings towards them. And it certainly cannot mean that I have to cherish feelings of closeness and sentimentality toward one who is seeking to destroy my life or my family or my property. So what in the world does it mean then to love your enemies? So, Lord willing, I want to give you several scriptural truths and then illustrate this truth with the life of Richard Kirkland.
Biblical Love Defined as Obedience
Weaver argues from John 14:21, 1 John 5:3, and Romans 13:10 that biblical love is obedience to God's commandments, not feelings.
Now, I hope that everyone in this room remembers that I have often taught and declared that biblical love is not feelings. It is not sentimentality. It is not some abstract thing floating around in the universe in which we cannot lay hold upon. Let me put it to you very plainly. Scripture says in Romans 13 and verse 10 that love is the fulfilling of the law. So in case you have not gotten it, let me say it again. First and foremost, love is obedience. It is obedience to God and his word.
And scriptures are abundant in teaching this same truth. Very quickly, look in your Bibles to the book of John, chapter 14. John, chapter 14. And notice, if you would please, verse 21. John 14, verse 21. Look what our Lord says. John 14, verse 21. "He that hath my commandments and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me."
Now note what he said. "He that hath My commandments and keepeth them, he it is that loveth Me." What is love? Love is obedience. "He that loveth Me shall be loved of My Father, and I will love him and will manifest Myself to him."
Now skip down to verse 24.
"He that loveth Me not keepeth not My sayings."
So Christ said, if you love Me, you will obey Me. If you do not love Me, you will disobey Me. That's pretty plain. Look in your Bibles to 1 John, back toward the Book of Revelation, 1 John. And you'll have 1 John, 2 John, 3 John, Jude, and then Revelation. Look in 1 John 5 at verses 3 and 4. 1 John 5, verse 3, "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments, and His commandments are not grievous." Verse 2 is the verse I really wanted first. He says, "By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep His commandments." So what is love? It's keeping His commandments. "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments and His commandments are not grievous." So love is obedience. It's obeying God's commandments. Go back to 1 John 2. And look, if you would please, at verse 3.
1 John 2 and verse 3. Here John says,
"And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments."
Now, note what he says.
"We do know that we know him if we keep his commandments."
How do I know that I know God? Well, the answer is, is my life one of obedience? Look in verse four.
"He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him."
Let me ask this question again. What is love based upon the Word of God? Love is obedience. He said,
"This is the love of God, that we keep His commandments, and those commandments are not grievous."
So first and foremost then, love is obedience.
Now I admit that there is always a spirit of compassion involved because we do not obey God in a vacuum. But it is our love and our regard to our Heavenly Father and His law that moves us and motivates us then to regard our enemies as He demands in His Word.
Context of Matthew 5: Correcting Pharisaical Misinterpretation
Weaver explains that in Matthew 5, Jesus corrects the Pharisees' misinterpretation of the law, including their teaching that it was acceptable to hate enemies.
Now, let me ask that you go back to Matthew 5. Matthew 5. Our text was verses 43 and 44. And let me show you the context of this passage, because I'm dealing with this phrase, "love your enemies." Notice Matthew chapter 5. And notice once again, let's read verses 43 and 44. "You have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy. But I say to you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you." Now, I'm dealing with the phrase "love your enemies." Hopefully I've demonstrated to you from Scripture already that love is obedience to the law. Love is the fulfilling of the law. But let me tell you what our Lord is doing in Matthew chapter 5. In Matthew chapter 5, our Lord is correcting the misinterpretation and the misapplication of the law of God by the Pharisees. The scribes and the Pharisees had constantly and continually perverted the law of God.
Let me show you. Look in your Bibles to Matthew 5, verse 27. Matthew 5, verse 27. Our Lord says,
"You have heard that it was said by them of old time, 'Thou shalt not commit adultery.'"
Note,
"Thou hast heard that it was said by them of old time."
Who is the "them of old time"? The scribes, the Pharisees who are supposedly teaching God's law. But note what He says in verse 28, "But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
" Notice that you've heard it said by them, but I say unto you. In other words, here's what they teach, but here's the proper interpretation and the proper application of the law. Look, if you would, at verse 31. He said, "
It hath been said," verse 32, "but I say unto you." In other words, here's what they taught, but now I'm telling you what the truth really is. Look in verse 33. "Again, you have heard that it hath been said by them of old time."
Verse 34, "But I say unto you." Here's what they taught. It was wrong. I'm teaching you what is right. Look in verse 38. "You have heard that it hath been said." Verse 39, "But I say unto you." And then if you'll skip down to our text, verse 43, "You have heard that it hath been said." That is, this is what the scribes and the Pharisees taught. Then he said in verse 44, "But I say to you, love your enemies." Now, what were the scribes and the Pharisees teaching? They were teaching it was quite acceptable and quite proper to hate your enemies. Now, nowhere in the law of God did the law demand that we hate our enemies. In fact, on the contrary, the law taught differently.
Let's go back in our Bibles to the book of Leviticus chapter 19. And let me just show you several passages. Leviticus chapter 19. And look, if you would please, at verse 18. Leviticus 19, verse 18. Look what God says. In fact, we can read beginning there with verse 17. Leviticus 19, verse 17.
"Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart. Thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him."
And the neighbor does not necessarily have to be a brother. Verse 18,
"Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself: I am the Lord."
So the law did not demand that we hate our enemies. Look, if you would please, in verse 33 of the same chapter.
Old Testament Teaching on Treatment of Enemies
Weaver cites Leviticus 19:18, Exodus 23:4-5, Proverbs 25:21, and Proverbs 24:17-18 to show that the law commanded kindness to enemies, not hatred.
Let's go back in our Bibles to the book of Leviticus chapter 19. And let me just show you several passages. Leviticus chapter 19. And look, if you would please, at verse 18. Leviticus 19, verse 18. Look what God says. In fact, we can read beginning there with verse 17. Leviticus 19, verse 17.
"Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart. Thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him."
And the neighbor does not necessarily have to be a brother. Verse 18,
"Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself: I am the Lord."
So the law did not demand that we hate our enemies. Look, if you would please, in verse 33 of the same chapter.
He said, "And if a stranger sojourn with thee in your land, ye shall not vex him. But the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the Lord your God." So once again, God's law is not teaching hatred of our enemies. Notice, if you would please, in Exodus chapter 23. Exodus chapter 23. By the way, please, I want you to take knowledge of this simple fact. The Word of God is not demanding or declaring that we do not have any enemies. The Word of God does indeed declare that there are plenty of enemies, but God also declares our proper attitude toward those enemies. Notice, if you would, Exodus chapter 23, notice verses 4 and 5. He said, "If thou meet thine enemy's ox or his ass going astray, thou shalt surely bring it back to him again. And if thou see the ass of him that hateth thee lying under his burden, and wouldest forbear to help him, thou shalt surely help with him."
So here is a man meeting his enemy's ass or his enemy's ox that has gotten out. God said, "You may not hide yourself, you must surely help to bring that animal back home again." And if you see your enemy's animal lying under burden, maybe trying to deliver a young, God said you can't hide yourself. You must help that animal. Look in your Bibles, if you would please, to the book of Proverbs, chapter 25. Proverbs 25. Here's another interesting passage. Proverbs 25, and note, if you would please, verse 21. Proverbs 25, verse 21. God said, "If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink." Now I'm in Proverbs 25, verse 21.
"For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee."
Now look what he said.
"If thine enemy hunger, give him bread to eat. If he be thirsty, give him water to drink. For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee."
Now look in your Bibles to Proverbs 24 at verse 17 and 18.
Now, here is a very interesting passage. God says, "Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: lest the Lord see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him." Now, God says when your enemy falls, there should not necessarily be a proud, gloating disposition. And God said, "Lest I see that pride and that gloating disposition, and I turn away my wrath from him." So God is telling us there is certainly an attitude that we're to have toward our enemies. He says we're to love our enemies. He's not saying we do not have enemies. But we are to love them. Now, I'm trying to explain to you what it means to love your enemies.
And I think before I get through, you might really understand it. Someone is going to object and say, "But Pastor, I read my Bible, too. And I remember reading in Psalm 139, especially verses 21 and 22, where David said, 'Do not I hate them that hate thee, O Lord? Yea, I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.'" David did say that. But are you listening? There is a difference between our private enemies and public enemies. There's a difference between my private enemy and a covenantal enemy of God. In Matthew chapter 5, he is not dealing with public or covenantal enemies. He's dealing with my personal enemies. That's when he said, "Love your enemies." So in Matthew 5, that passage then has to do with individuals who have harmed me, individuals who are trying to injure me. It has nothing to do with those who are in rebellion and revolt against God. Yes, we could say with David there correctly, "Do not I hate them that hate thee, O Lord? Yea, I hate them with perfect hatred. I count them mine enemies."
Distinction Between Personal and Covenantal Enemies
Weaver clarifies that Matthew 5 addresses personal enemies, not public or covenantal enemies of God, referencing David's imprecatory psalms.
Now, here is a very interesting passage. God says, "Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: lest the Lord see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him." Now, God says when your enemy falls, there should not necessarily be a proud, gloating disposition. And God said, "Lest I see that pride and that gloating disposition, and I turn away my wrath from him." So God is telling us there is certainly an attitude that we're to have toward our enemies. He says we're to love our enemies. He's not saying we do not have enemies. But we are to love them. Now, I'm trying to explain to you what it means to love your enemies.
And I think before I get through, you might really understand it. Someone is going to object and say, "But Pastor, I read my Bible, too. And I remember reading in Psalm 139, especially verses 21 and 22, where David said, 'Do not I hate them that hate thee, O Lord? Yea, I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.'" David did say that. But are you listening? There is a difference between our private enemies and public enemies. There's a difference between my private enemy and a covenantal enemy of God. In Matthew chapter 5, he is not dealing with public or covenantal enemies. He's dealing with my personal enemies. That's when he said, "Love your enemies." So in Matthew 5, that passage then has to do with individuals who have harmed me, individuals who are trying to injure me. It has nothing to do with those who are in rebellion and revolt against God. Yes, we could say with David there correctly, "Do not I hate them that hate thee, O Lord? Yea, I hate them with perfect hatred. I count them mine enemies."
So when God says to us in Matthew 5 in verse 44, "Love your enemies"—in fact, go back there. What in the world does he say? Let me show you. In Matthew chapter 5 in verse 43, our Lord says it like this: "You have heard that it hath been said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbor and hate thine enemy.'" In other words, that's what the Pharisees taught. That was wrong. "But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you." Now, Matthew 5 verses 43 and 44 is forbidding what you and I would call personal animosity, vindictiveness, ill will, hatred, and any other wicked motive and disposition. Now here's my question. How do we know that we're not full of ill will, hatred, vindictiveness, and personal animosity toward our enemies?
Romans 12: Overcoming Evil with Good
Weaver expounds Romans 12:19-21, emphasizing that we overcome evil by doing good to our enemies, not by vengeance.
Now, I want you to watch this. Turn in your Bible to Romans chapter 12 because Romans 12 verses 19 through 21 is a further explanation of Matthew 5, 43 and 44. So look in Romans chapter 12. And I hope that you understand that this once again is quoted from Proverbs 25. Notice Romans chapter 12 verse 19. The Apostle Paul writes,
"Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath."
Why?
"For it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord."
Now note, he says,
"Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves."
In other words, do not get full of vindictiveness, vengefulness, hatefulness. Why? Because vengeance belongs to the Lord. And then he says in verse 20,
"Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head."
"Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good." Now, the question once again comes up, how do I know that I'm not full of vindictiveness and vengeance? Well, if I'm able to feed my enemy if he's hungry, if I'm able to give him water to drink if he's thirsty, then I'm not necessarily full of vindictiveness and vengeance. And then he said, "In so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head." In other words, what you are doing is rewarding good for evil. And then he makes this amazing statement. "Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good." So the way to overcome evil is by doing that which is right and biblical. If we reward evil for evil, then we are overcome with evil ourselves.
Historical Background of the Battle of Fredericksburg
Weaver provides the historical context of the Battle of Fredericksburg in December 1862, describing the Confederate defensive position at Marye's Heights.
Now, I told you the title of this message was "The Angel of Marye's Heights." Because this is one of the clearest illustrations of Matthew 5, 43 and 44 and of Romans 12, 19 through 21 that I've ever come across. So before I give you the story of the Angel of Marye's Heights, I want to give you some of the background first. The events surrounding the story of the Angel of Marye's Heights took place at the Battle of Fredericksburg, Virginia in December of 1862. The Union forces, the Yankee forces under General Ambrose E. Burnside—and by the way, that's where we get the word "sideburns" from because he had those huge sideburns and his name was Burnside. So it just turned around. So the Yankee general then was Ambrose E. Burnside and he planned to attack Richmond, Virginia by way of Fredericksburg, Virginia.
Now the Confederates happened to arrive first. By the way, General Nathan Bedford Forrest had a saying. General Forrest had as his dictum this simple truth, "Get there firstest with the mostest." And that's what he always tried to do. Well, it just so happened they knew Burnside was coming and the Confederates got there first. And this battle is one of the great landmarks of the entire war. And when the Confederates got there first, they carefully selected their position and fortified that position with a stone wall. The stone wall was already there.
And then they built a crude road between two hilltops. And those two hilltops were known as Willis and Marye's Hills. Collectively, they were known as Marye's Heights. So Marye's Heights, then, is the place. It's where this battle took place.
Now, the Army of Northern Virginia, of course, was under the leadership of General Robert E. Lee. He was there stationed along the Telegraph Road, which is also known as the Sunken Road. And this road was to the rear of Fredericksburg. The Union Army had to charge uphill to attack the Confederate positions. Involved in this defense were two seasoned Confederate generals, General Stonewall Jackson and General Joseph Kershaw.
Now, I've already told you that General Burnside was the Yankee general. And Lincoln had placed him in charge for a specific reason. Lincoln was desperate for victory. Up until this time, most of the battles had been to the south. So the Union army was normally in disarray. The morale was sagging. Moreover, the people of the north were generally disgruntled and discouraged, and an election was coming up, and Lincoln literally demanded that Burnside do something and pressured him to win this battle. So Burnside was desirous of a quick battle, a quick victory in this battle, and what he did was he sent wave after wave of Union troops charging up this hill where the Confederates were hiding behind a stone wall.
The Slaughter of Union Troops
Weaver details the devastating Confederate firepower that mowed down wave after wave of Union soldiers, leaving thousands dead or wounded.
And the Confederate sharpshooters were six ranks thick, not counting the artillery. The Yankees had to charge, are you listening, not only up a hill, but over 400 yards of open field. Sergeant Kirkland, Sergeant Richard Kirkland, was one of those Confederate men behind that stone wall. Here's what would happen. Now remember, these men were six ranks thick. That is the Confederates. When the Yankees would charge up the hill, one line would deliver their devastating fire straight into the ranks of the Yankee soldiers.
They would immediately step back. The second rank of Confederate soldiers would come up and empty theirs. They would step back, and they kept going. And once they stepped back, just kept reloading. And finally you had six ranks delivering devastating fire into 400 yards of open field. Nothing for the Yankees to hide behind, not counting the artillery. Well, there was a minimum of 6,500 dead and dying Yankees lying on the field. You're going to hear me give you various figures today because there are estimates by men who were there, but the estimate is from 6,000 to 12,000 Yankee soldiers that were dead or dying. With each charge of the Yankees, a fresh line of Confederate riflemen would step up and fire while the others were reloading. Yankees dropped like flies and they dropped to the frozen earth. Now remember this is in December of 1862 and literally the Yankees were being mowed down.
General Kershaw was on horseback and he was riding behind his troops encouraging them to hold their position at any cost. This is absolutely amazing to me. There were a few Yankee soldiers that got within a few feet of the stone wall. But not one ever reached that stone wall. Not one. Not one. They were all cut down before they reached the stone wall. You're talking about devastating fire.
Now some of you men were in the service and I remember the first time they took us out at boot camp and just showed us the field of fire. Do you remember you had a BAR on one end and a BAR on the other end and all of these men would have different varying fields of fire, and every fifth bullet was a tracer. That means every fifth bullet was a red streak. And for every red streak you saw, there were four that you didn't see. And I remember the first time I ever saw an 11-man squad lay down a field of fire like that.
The Cries of the Wounded and Kirkland's Compassion
Weaver describes the agonizing cries of the wounded Union soldiers and Richard Kirkland's growing distress, leading him to seek permission to help.
And here, the artillery over them, blasting down upon them. Every time they sent a wave of men against the Confederate position, every time they failed. And these thousands of Yankee soldiers collapsed on the field. There was no rescue attempt that could be made by the Yankees. Because there's 400 yards of open field. No truce had been called. And Ambrose, General Ambrose, was so stubborn that he would not call a truce so that he could get his wounded off the field.
Well, then sun set over Fredericksburg and the temperature dropped below freezing. As the temperatures fell, snow began to fall. And fell on those dead and wounded Yankee soldiers. Let me give you just one quote. Les Carroll, in his book, "On the Angel of Marye's Heights," writes this. By the way, for those of you who have ever shot muzzleloaders, and for those of you who have ever seen cannon fire, the black smoke is horrendous. Listen to what he said. "The thick smoke from the day-long battle mixed with the fog to form a gray, gloomy cloud over the battlefield. A dark mood fell on the battlefield with the night. The Confederate soldiers sat or lay crammed behind the stone wall, desperate to stay warm and alert to movements of the enemy. Just yards in front of them on the frozen plain, nine or ten thousand Federal soldiers lay dead or wounded."
"The injured Union boys were helpless and cold, in terrible pain and unable to get back to their lines. Their fellow soldiers could not come forward to help them. Night fell and the agonizing cries for water and warmth filled the air. The dreadful cries of the wounded Union soldiers continued throughout the morning. The lingering fog and smoke kept the battlefield dark and obscure. But the cries still found their way out of the fog." Richard Kirkland listened with a heavy heart. I want to give you three eyewitness accounts, just simple one-liners almost. Lieutenant Frederick L. Hitchcock was one of the wounded. From 132nd Pennsylvania Infantry, he said, "I gave my life up. The nervous strain was simply awful. The atmosphere seems surcharged with the most startling and frightful things, death, wounds, and appalling destruction everywhere." General Lafayette McLaws of Georgia said this concerning the enemy, "They were repulsed with zeal and driven back with much loss on every occasion." And then finally, Alexander Hunt of the 17th Georgia said this, "All that day we watched the fruitless charges with their fearful slaughter until we were sick at heart. As I watched one line get swept away by one fearful blast from Kershaw's men behind the wall, I forgot they were enemies and only remembered that they were men."
"And it's hard to see brave men die in cold blood." Here's a Georgia boy who said, "We were just literally slaughtering them." Richard Kirkland was a Confederate soldier from Camden, South Carolina. He was a young man with deep southern values and had a high regard for life. He was with the Second Carolina. He had joined the Confederate Army to defend his beloved country. While he sat behind that stone wall, shivering in the cold with his fellow Confederates, he listened all night to the anguished cries of those wounded Yankees begging for water, begging for warmth, begging for help. As the night grew colder, the cries grew more desperate. And for Richard Kirkland, all of a sudden, they weren't just Yankees. They were men. They had families. They were hurting. They needed help. Richard Kirkland just simply could not bear their cries any longer.
Kirkland's Plea and Act of Mercy
Weaver recounts Kirkland's request to General Kershaw, his unarmed crossing of the battlefield under fire, and his ministry of water and comfort to the enemy wounded.
So he left the stone wall. And he went up to the top of Marye's Heights to the Stevens' house, where General Kershaw had his headquarters. It was there that Sergeant Kirkland made a plea with the General. With the General's permission, he would take water to the wounded Union soldiers lying out on the battlefield. Now, the General certainly was touched. And from that window, he had observed, directed the battle, what time he was not on horseback. And he watched from that position 30,000 Yankees charge up that hill and approximately 10,000 dead and or wounded lying out in front of him. At first, he refused permission for Sergeant Kirkland to carry water. He told him Union sharpshooters will kill you immediately. He said if he allowed such a thing, he would be sending Sergeant Kirkland to an instant death. Kirkland replied, "I cannot stand it." He said all night long the Yankee wounded had been crying for water. "With your permission, sir," he said, "I'll succor them." The general explained to Sergeant Kirkland that no truce existed between the two forces.
Sergeant Kirkland then requested the privilege of displaying a white handkerchief if he went over the wall to carry water to the soldiers, but the general would not allow it. He said, "We cannot wave a white flag. They'll think it's either a surrender or we're demanding some type of truce." He said, "No, I cannot allow that." Finally, Sergeant Kirkland said this, "With your permission, sir," he said, "I will cross the field unarmed and without the display of a white flag, climb over the parapet and give those wounded Yankees water." The general just simply could not resist this gracious and kind spirit of Sergeant Kirkland. General Kershaw said, "Sergeant, the enemy is yonder behind those redoubts with guns ready to have you to forfeit your life." "But if you will, go and may God protect you." Kirkland understood that the attempt would be entirely at his own risk. He understood that he was assuming full responsibility for his life. And that when he went over that wall, he was literally taking his life into his hands. And so Kirkland then put down his weapons, gathered as many canteens as he could gather, filled them with water from the well at the Stevens' house, and he raced out to the battlefield. As he jumped over the wall and began running to those wounded Yankee soldiers, Union sharpshooters immediately opened fire. I mean, if you were a Yankee sharpshooter and you saw a Confederate running out on an open battlefield, and especially with dead and dying Yankee soldiers all around, what would you think?
I can tell you what they thought. They thought, in all probability, he was there robbing the dead. And so they began to shoot at him. Thankfully, they missed. And finally, a Yankee officer saw that he was unarmed. And all that he had was canteens. And the Yankee officer shouted, "Cease fire. Don't shoot that man. He's too brave to die." The Union sharpshooters ceased firing as they watched Sergeant Kirkland, the lone figure on the battlefield, and they could not believe their eyes at what they were seeing. Because Kirkland would take each wounded Yankee, put his head in his lap, and pour water down his thirsting throat.
Not only that, for those who had blankets, he covered them with their own. Then he gently straightened out their twisted, broken, mangled limbs. He went from one Yankee to the other. When those Yankee soldiers who were wounded saw Sergeant Kirkland giving help to the other men, trembling hands rose in the air. "I'm here. I'm alive. Come help me." Other men cried and begged for help and for water. One dying soldier thrust a letter into Richard's hands and used his dying breath to request that that letter be sent to his home after he died. Another soldier gave Sergeant Kirkland a watch box and asked that the watch box be returned to his girlfriend. He said, "Please, sir, keep the watch for yourself, but just send the watch box back to my girl." Throughout the entire morning, he made trip after trip from the battlefield to the well to fill and refill those canteens and back again to give water to those thirsty dying Yankees.
Aftermath and Legacy of Richard Kirkland
Weaver tells of the cheers from both sides, Kirkland's later death at Chickamauga, his tombstone inscription, and the modern honors bestowed upon him.
When he had completed his mission, he took his place back behind the wall with his weapons in hand. At that point, both sides had literally watched in awe. At that point, both sides broke out in loud cheers and loud applause. And both sides called Sergeant Kirkland the angel of Marye's Heights. Here was a man who was giving water to his enemies. A few months later, Richard Kirkland was killed at the Battle of Chickamauga. The way he was killed was evidently in line with his character. For he was killed while he was defending two other Confederate soldiers and enabling them to escape from an ambush. So literally he gave his life so that his fellow compatriots might live. Before he died, another Confederate soldier took Richard Kirkland's head and laid it in his lap, and his last words were these, "Tell Pa I died right. I died at my post." It was on September the 20th, 1863, when Richard Kirkland was mortally wounded at the Battle of Chickamauga.
His body was placed under the spreading trees in the Quaker Cemetery in Camden, South Carolina. Their large headstone reads thusly, "Richard Kirkland, CSA. At Fredericksburg, he risked his life to carry water to wounded and dying enemies. At the Battle of Chickamauga, laid down his life for his country. 1843 to 1863." Part of the inscription on that tombstone reads thusly, "If thine enemy thirsts, give him to drink." Today in Fredericksburg, Virginia, there is a street named after Richard Kirkland. More than 110 years after the war was ended, Richard Kirkland was nominated for the highest honor available to Confederate soldiers, the Confederate Medal of Honor. This was dated August 17, 1977, and presented a month later to the governor of South Carolina, James B. Edwards. An artist once again painted a portrait of Richard Kirkland's compassion, and that picture's entitled "The Angel of Marye's Heights." And that picture today hangs in the Capitol in Columbia, South Carolina.
Study Guide
Major Themes
Biblical Love as Obedience
Summary: Love is defined not by feelings but by obedience to God's commandments, as taught in John 14:21 and 1 John 5:3.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'First and foremost, love is obedience. It is obedience to God and his word.'
Loving Personal Enemies
Summary: Christians are commanded to love their personal enemies by doing good to them, blessing them, and praying for them, as per Matthew 5:44.
Evidence: Weaver reads Matthew 5:44 and explains it forbids personal animosity and vindictiveness.
Overcoming Evil with Good
Summary: Romans 12:19-21 teaches that believers should not seek vengeance but overcome evil by doing good to their enemies.
Evidence: Weaver quotes Romans 12:19-21 and says, 'Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.'
Compassion for Enemies
Summary: Richard Kirkland's story exemplifies compassion that sees enemies as fellow men in need, transcending hostility.
Evidence: Weaver quotes Alexander Hunt: 'I forgot they were enemies and only remembered that they were men.'
The Importance of Character and Parental Training
Summary: Kirkland's actions at age 19 highlight the need for character and the role of parents in instilling such virtues.
Evidence: Weaver asks, 'Where are today's parents who teach the Richard Kirklands?'
The Living Water of Christ
Summary: Kirkland gave temporary water, but Christ offers the living water of eternal life, which believers should share.
Evidence: Weaver references John 4 and says, 'We're not even willing to sacrifice to give the living water of life.'
Key Arguments
Love is obedience, not sentimentality
Summary: Weaver argues that biblical love is defined by keeping God's commandments, not by emotional feelings.
Evidence: He cites John 14:21: 'He that hath my commandments and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me.'
Jesus corrected the Pharisees' misinterpretation of the law
Summary: In Matthew 5, Jesus contrasts His teaching with the Pharisees' erroneous teaching that it was acceptable to hate enemies.
Evidence: Weaver points out the repeated 'You have heard... but I say unto you' pattern in Matthew 5.
The Old Testament commanded kindness to enemies
Summary: The law did not teach hatred of enemies; instead, it commanded helping an enemy's animal and giving food and water to an enemy.
Evidence: Weaver cites Exodus 23:4-5 and Proverbs 25:21.
Distinction between personal and covenantal enemies
Summary: Matthew 5 addresses personal enemies, not public enemies of God, allowing for imprecatory prayers like David's.
Evidence: Weaver explains, 'There is a difference between our private enemies and public enemies.'
Vengeance belongs to God, not man
Summary: Romans 12:19 commands believers not to avenge themselves but to leave room for God's wrath.
Evidence: Weaver quotes, 'Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.'
Kirkland's act illustrates loving enemies
Summary: Richard Kirkland's giving water to wounded Union soldiers is a clear illustration of Matthew 5:44 and Romans 12:20.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'This is one of the clearest illustrations... that I've ever come across.'
Self-defense is compatible with loving enemies
Summary: Loving enemies does not preclude defending one's life or property, but it must be done without vindictiveness.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'I have no problem with killing an enemy when an enemy deserves to be killed... but there is a vast difference between killing one's enemies and just torturing someone.'
A pure heart is essential in dealing with enemies
Summary: Proverbs 4:23 teaches that keeping the heart with diligence ensures right actions toward enemies.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'If I keep my heart, then my actions are going to be right.'
Scripture References
Matthew 5:43-44
Context: Weaver reads these verses as the primary text, commanding love for enemies.
Romans 13:10
Context: Weaver cites this verse to support that love is the fulfilling of the law.
John 14:21
Context: Weaver quotes Jesus' words that keeping His commandments is the evidence of loving Him.
John 14:24
Context: Weaver notes that not keeping Christ's sayings indicates a lack of love for Him.
1 John 5:2-3
Context: Weaver reads that love for God is demonstrated by keeping His commandments.
1 John 2:3-4
Context: Weaver cites that knowing God is evidenced by keeping His commandments.
Matthew 5:27-28
Context: Weaver uses this passage to show Jesus correcting Pharisaical misinterpretation of the law.
Matthew 5:31-32
Context: Weaver references this as another example of Jesus' corrective teaching.
Matthew 5:33-34
Context: Weaver mentions this as part of the pattern of Jesus correcting false teaching.
Matthew 5:38-39
Context: Weaver notes this as another instance of Jesus' 'But I say unto you' correction.
Leviticus 19:17-18
Context: Weaver reads that the law commanded not to hate or bear a grudge, but to love one's neighbor.
Leviticus 19:33-34
Context: Weaver cites the command to love the stranger as oneself.
Exodus 23:4-5
Context: Weaver reads the command to help an enemy's lost or burdened animal.
Proverbs 25:21-22
Context: Weaver quotes the instruction to give food and water to a hungry and thirsty enemy.
Proverbs 24:17-18
Context: Weaver reads the warning not to rejoice when an enemy falls.
Psalm 139:21-22
Context: Weaver references David's hatred of God's enemies to distinguish personal from covenantal enemies.
Romans 12:19-21
Context: Weaver expounds this passage as a further explanation of loving enemies, emphasizing leaving vengeance to God.
Matthew 10:42
Context: Weaver quotes Jesus' promise that giving a cup of cold water in His name will not lose its reward.
John 4:10-14
Context: Weaver references Jesus' offer of living water to the Samaritan woman, contrasting it with temporary water.
Proverbs 4:23
Context: Weaver cites the command to keep the heart with diligence, as actions flow from the heart.
Historical References
Battle of Fredericksburg, December 1862
Context: Weaver describes the battle where Union forces under General Burnside attacked Confederate positions at Marye's Heights.
General Ambrose E. Burnside
Context: Weaver identifies Burnside as the Union general known for his sideburns, who ordered repeated charges.
General Nathan Bedford Forrest
Context: Weaver mentions Forrest's dictum 'Get there firstest with the mostest' in context of Confederates arriving first.
General Robert E. Lee
Context: Weaver notes Lee as commander of the Army of Northern Virginia at Fredericksburg.
General Stonewall Jackson
Context: Weaver names Jackson as one of the seasoned Confederate generals involved in the defense.
General Joseph Kershaw
Context: Weaver identifies Kershaw as the Confederate general to whom Kirkland made his plea.
Sergeant Richard Kirkland
Context: Weaver tells the story of Kirkland, a 19-year-old Confederate soldier who gave water to wounded Union enemies.
Battle of Chickamauga, September 20, 1863
Context: Weaver recounts that Kirkland was killed at Chickamauga while defending fellow soldiers.
Confederate Medal of Honor nomination, 1977
Context: Weaver notes that Kirkland was nominated for the Confederate Medal of Honor over 110 years after the war.
Painting 'The Angel of Marye's Heights' in South Carolina Capitol
Context: Weaver mentions a painting of Kirkland's compassion hangs in the Capitol in Columbia, South Carolina.
Important Quotes
First and foremost, love is obedience. It is obedience to God and his word.
Significance: This is Weaver's central definition of biblical love, which underpins the entire message.
I forgot they were enemies and only remembered that they were men.
Significance: This quote from Alexander Hunt captures the compassion that Kirkland exemplified, seeing the humanity in his enemies.
I cannot stand it.
Significance: Kirkland's simple plea to General Kershaw reveals his deep compassion and inability to ignore the suffering of his enemies.
Don't shoot that man. He's too brave to die.
Significance: The Union officer's command to cease fire highlights the extraordinary courage and mercy of Kirkland's act.
Tell Pa I died right. I died at my post.
Significance: Kirkland's last words reflect his character and sense of duty, consistent with his earlier compassion.
If thine enemy thirsts, give him to drink.
Significance: This inscription on Kirkland's tombstone directly applies Proverbs 25:21 to his life, summarizing the sermon's theme.
We're not even willing to sacrifice to give the living water of life, for which men will never thirst again.
Significance: Weaver contrasts Kirkland's temporary water with the eternal living water of Christ, challenging believers to share the gospel.
Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Significance: This quote from Romans 12:21 is the key principle for how believers should respond to enemies, as illustrated by Kirkland.
Discussion Questions
How does defining love as obedience rather than feelings change the way we approach the command to love our enemies?
Context: Weaver emphasizes that biblical love is obedience to God's commandments, not sentimentality.
In what ways do we sometimes misinterpret Scripture like the Pharisees, and how can we avoid adding to or subtracting from God's commands?
Context: Weaver explains that the Pharisees taught it was acceptable to hate enemies, which was a misinterpretation of the law.
What is the difference between personal enemies and covenantal enemies of God, and how should our response differ?
Context: Weaver distinguishes between private enemies and public enemies of God, referencing David's imprecatory psalms.
How can we practically 'overcome evil with good' in our daily interactions with those who wrong us?
Context: Weaver expounds Romans 12:19-21, emphasizing that we should not seek vengeance but do good to our enemies.
What does Richard Kirkland's story teach us about seeing the humanity in our enemies, even in the midst of conflict?
Context: Weaver tells how Kirkland saw the wounded Yankees as men in need, not just enemies.
How can parents today cultivate the kind of character and compassion in their children that Richard Kirkland displayed?
Context: Weaver challenges the disparity between the youth and parents of Kirkland's era and today.
In what ways are we more willing to offer temporary help than the eternal living water of the gospel, and how can we change that?
Context: Weaver contrasts Kirkland's temporary water with the living water of Christ.
How can we defend ourselves or others righteously without falling into vindictiveness or hatred?
Context: Weaver discusses the compatibility of self-defense with a pure heart, free from vengeance.
Applications
Obey God's commands toward enemies
Summary: Loving enemies means acting in obedience to God's Word by doing good to them, blessing them, and praying for them, regardless of feelings.
Evidence: Weaver states, 'How do we love our enemies? The answer is simple, by acting biblically and scripturally toward them.'
Reject personal vindictiveness
Summary: Believers must guard their hearts against vengeance, ill will, and hatred, leaving justice to God.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'If our hearts are not full of vindictiveness and animosity, we'll be able to pray for them.'
Show practical compassion to those who wrong you
Summary: Like Kirkland, we should meet the practical needs of our enemies when possible, as a testimony of God's grace.
Evidence: Weaver uses Kirkland's example of giving water to illustrate 'If thine enemy hunger, feed him.'
Overcome evil with good
Summary: Instead of repaying evil for evil, believers should respond with good, which can convict and transform enemies.
Evidence: Weaver quotes Romans 12:21 and says, 'If we reward evil for evil, then we are overcome with evil ourselves.'
Share the living water of the gospel
Summary: Christians should be willing to sacrifice to offer the eternal life of Christ to others, not just temporary help.
Evidence: Weaver says, 'We're not even willing to sacrifice to give the living water of life.'
Cultivate character through parental training
Summary: Parents must teach and model compassion, character, and biblical convictions to raise children like Richard Kirkland.
Evidence: Weaver asks, 'Where are today's parents who teach the Richard Kirklands?'
Defend life righteously
Summary: Self-defense is biblical, but it must be carried out without a vengeful heart, recognizing the duty to preserve life.
Evidence: Weaver explains, 'If I kill you in defending my life, I'm not going to do so in a heart of vindictiveness.'
Keep your heart pure
Summary: By diligently guarding the heart, believers ensure that their actions toward enemies are righteous and God-honoring.
Evidence: Weaver cites Proverbs 4:23 and says, 'If I keep my heart, then my actions are going to be right.'
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